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Many times, when couples divorce, they say, "We just grew apart." That can happen to any couple, and it is something you have to work at. To me it is not a good excuse for separating or divorcing because that might happen in the next marriage too. Do you keep breaking up and breaking hearts? Better to stick it out and work at it. Therefore, what you should look for in a potential marriage partner, if you are trying to figure out if you are truly in love, is, "Does he or she feel it is important to stick together, no matter what? Is he or she committed to sticking together, growing together, doing whatever it takes to grow in love?"

People talk about the fact that it is important to have common interests, values and beliefs. Yes, these things are important and make a marriage go more smoothly. But perhaps even more important is a basic understanding that we can disagree and still love each other; we can believe in different things and still love each other. We can each do different things and come back together to be a more interesting pair for having had different interests. A red flag might be if you constantly disagree, argue or fight, or if you can never agree on friends, activities or interests.

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