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Hey roke...jam dakord me ty-funny!!!
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kurre mos thuaj jo.Apo i beson dashurise tek radha e bukes:p ose duke pritur autobuzin

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Un mendoj se ne internet mund te njohesh persona,te kesh ide se si mund te jene,mund te flasesh me ore te tera apo edhe sikur tia u shohesh fytyren.Mund te krijosh shoqeri ,besim e ku ta di une se cfare.....po kursesi ti thuash "TE DUA"
Nese me vone takohesh live dhe njihesh me mire...pse jo...

tamam eric nese takohesh live mund ti thuash me vone te dua por jo ne internet

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Un mendoj se ne internet mund te njohesh persona,te kesh ide se si mund te jene,mund te flasesh me ore te tera apo edhe sikur tia u shohesh fytyren.Mund te krijosh shoqeri ,besim e ku ta di une se cfare.....po kursesi ti thuash "TE DUA"
Nese me vone takohesh live dhe njihesh me mire...pse jo...

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Ne fakt asnjhere nuk i dihet........

te godet ndonje me kopace prapa kokes dhe pastaj bie ne dashuri me thiken e bukes.........

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te godet ndonje me kopace prapa kokes dhe pastaj bie ne dashuri me thiken e bukes.........

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di vetem nje rast konkert te nje lidhje te tille.dhe vura re se te dy personat (m&f)kishin probleme.Femra kishte nje gjendje te mire ekonomike,pro jo nje paraqitje terheqese si femer,kurse ai as ven ku me fut koken(pavarsisht se kishte 15 vjet emigracion)kurse per praqitje te kupste ne bel.mendoj se dominon dhe mosha ,kryesisht persona qe s`kan mund dot deri ne nje moshe 28-30-35.thone ;hajt ta provojme ne funf te fundit "shpresa "eshte e fundit qe vdes.
pra
fillimi mund ta perkufizoj "hiprokozi e jetes"
dhe me pas koha tregon nese ka dic`ka serioze qe vjen si rrjedhoje e ndjenjes apo thjesht interes.
Por ...dhe me nje qen ,po ta rritesh 3-4 vjet e ke te veshtire ta braktisesh dhe jo me nje qenje human
por kursesi nuk mund te krahesohet nje lidheje e drejperdrejt me nje lidhje interneti.

une besoj ne dashuri dhe jan shum mundsi qe ta njohesh njeriun ne chat apo(( msn web cam))kam njohur nje shoqe nga tetova por thjesht shoqeri sa do doja qe ajo shoqeri te ishte me teper por ja qe nuk eshte mundesija kemi nje mosh qe kuptojm dhe flasim ashtu sic ndjejm per jeten dhe gjithsesi respekti eshte ai qe vlerson gjerat,, kam besim se ka shum vajza e djem te mire qe tani eshte mundesija te lidhen fal internetit qe na jep kete mundsi,,,,,,,ndoshta fjalet e mija nuk zen vend tek askush se fundja njerzit jan te ndryshem dhe mendojn ndrushe,,,,,mendimi ime eshte qe jepi vetes besim dhe ky besime vlen per mire qe ta njohesh tjetrin dhe varet karakteri dhe morali atij qe njeh,,,,,po u puqen mendime dhe po qe se e ndjen veten se eshte ky njeri eshte per ty,,,atehet lidhja behet me serjoze,,,,,sa i perket ne chat rom cdo gje eshte kote,,,,,,rrall gjen njerez te besh nje bised normale,,,,,,pastaj ne djemt jemi shume te ncituar direkt dhe ne thela ku i trembim vajzat dhe,,nuk na flasin,,,,,,ne forum eshte me e mire mundesija,,,,,,,duhet qe te flitet dhe per lidhjet ne dashuri,,,,,,,,,,,kam pasur mundesin qe ne forumet e tjera ka shume atmosfer dhe shume tema qe te terheqin duke postuar gjera te kendshme ketu dhe pse kam koh qe jam rregjistruar nuk me eshte dhen koha te perqendrohe dhe te shikoj,,,nuk dua te them qe nuk me pelqen por ka shume gjera te tjera dhe me te kendshme,,,,,,,,nejse une me teper me pelqen te lecoj,,,,,,,dhe nuk bej dallime se fundja kush jam une nje intelektual i thjesht qe me mall shkoj nga ana jone web

The Wall Street Journal Online
By Ellen Gamerman

About two million Americans met their spouses online. Now the divorces are starting. How dating Web sites are scrambling to make sure forever really is forever

In 1995, Matt Frassica, tired of singles bars and set-ups by friends, tried his hand at dating online. There he met, and later married, a woman who also liked long walks in the rain and homemade lasagna. They were even featured in People magazine as a prototype of successful cyber-romance.

Then the fairy tale ended. Mr. Frassica said he realized he was gay, and the divorce was official last year. "We avoided getting to know the real person," says the 34-year-old corporate recruiter in San Francisco. "All we knew was the profiles of each other." (His ex-wife confirms that.)

More than a decade after the Internet revolutionized dating -- about two million Americans met their spouses online, by one measure -- the sites face a new challenge: keeping these couples together. While most sites started out focusing on dating, they are increasingly using their success in the marriage arena as a marketing tool -- making the stakes higher if these unions start to go south.

While many happily married couples say they may never have found a mate offline, there are already indications that meeting a spouse on the Web comes with its own set of potential pitfalls. Some divorce cases, for example, highlight false claims made in the online profiles that led to the initial attraction. In addition, of course, there are the natural perils that can come with getting to know a person virtually instead of the old-fashioned way.

Now, sites are stepping up their efforts to ensure that matches last. EHarmony.com is opening a new "relationship lab" this summer where some couples who met through the site will be monitored for at least five years to see how the marriages fare. In an initiative dubbed "Project Moses" internally, JDate.com, a Jewish singles site, is contracting a dating coach to train customer-service representatives in relationship counseling for couples who call in. True.com pitches a compatibility test (patent pending) that it says follows standards set by the American Psychological Association; one aim is to reduce divorce.

The emphasis on marriage and marriage sustenance is what these sites say they need to do to continue to expand their business. After double- and triple-digit growth in some recent years, spending on online dating rose by just 7% last year, according to a report by the Online Publishers Association, a trade group. The report shows that for the first time since 2002, music and video downloads surpassed online dating as a top revenue-maker on the Web. (Adult entertainment probably trumps them all, according to some market researchers, though figures are difficult to track.) A recent survey by Jupiter Research says serious daters -- those seeking long-term commitments -- are 63% more likely to pay for online dating than other daters. Such statistics are one reason the sites are taking pains to demonstrate successful track records at the altar.

The quest by dating Web sites to keep passion alive is all the more urgent because demographic statistics would suggest that the first wave of divorces among online daters is just now beginning. The median length of a first marriage that ends in divorce is eight years, according to a Census Bureau survey released last year. Online dating took off in 1995, with Match.com celebrating its 150th wedding two years later. By 2002, this style of dating had become firmly entrenched in the cultural mainstream.

Touting marriage results is now a major part of many sites' business strategies. Match boasts "twice as many marriages as any other site in the world" on its home page, a claim based on last year's survey of 4,800 people on Weddingchannel.com, a Los Angeles-based online-registry and wedding-planning service. Yahoo Personals has a special section devoted to success stories, while eHarmony festoons the hallways of its Pasadena, Calif., headquarters with photos of couples at their weddings, including one with "eHarmony" in icing on a computer-shaped cake.

Though there is no statistical evidence that the break-up rate among online daters is any different from the national average, some divorce lawyers point to anecdotal evidence. Eric Spevak, a New Jersey divorce lawyer, says that as many as one in five of his clients now comes from marriages that started on the Internet. "There's no consequences online -- people can promise you anything, so engagements are shorter and people are rushing in," says Mr. Spevak.

New York divorce lawyer Raoul Felder says he is also seeing more Internet daters splitting up in his practice: "It's usually a relationship based on fantasy or desperation, which doesn't bode well."

False claims on online dating profiles are showing up in court as lawyers use the early dating profiles -- with their fibs about wealth and status -- for character attacks later. Robert Hoover, a lawyer in San Jose, Calif., says he was able to wrest child custody from his client's ex-wife based partly on allegations that she had used her younger sister's photograph in her dating profile to trick men, including her future husband, into emailing her. "If she'd misrepresented herself in that regard, maybe she misrepresents herself in the area of custody," says Mr. Hoover. "That was just brought up to attack her credibility."

Marriage counselors and divorce attorneys say they are often struck by how much of what brings people together online ultimately contributes to the undoing of the relationship.

One of the hallmarks of online dating, for example, is the quick intimacy driven by heartfelt profiles that can go on for pages and reveal everything from a person's favorite food to a weakness for tattoos. Focusing on these attributes, some psychologists say, makes potential suitors more likely to overlook someone's downsides. A 2004 Match study said 11% of its married couples were "in love prior to ever meeting face-to-face."