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Postuar nga lorie datë 18 Tetor 2012 - 22:36:
uniqueness does not equal crazy.
Be careful how you use this word. 
After all, why do you guys complain?
Men complain women are undecided and dosn't know what they want and when they have greatly put efforts to find out what they want and be particular about certain things you think of them as 'crazy'?
Bhahah, silly reasoning. And this coming from men who have taken the time to figure out their own uniqueness.
Personal preference is in every gender, certain men like chubby, skinny, educated,sweet, fierce ,equal partners, caretakers, 'bosses' because they want to be ordered around ,'moms' because they want to be taken care of, or single moms because they want to be 'the hero' taking care of them and the lissst goes on and onnnnnn. 
Postuar nga Endri datë 18 Tetor 2012 - 23:06:
I guess we can blame preference and not irrationality. 
Postuar nga lorie datë 19 Tetor 2012 - 08:03:
Yes
preference, beware tho, certain preferences reveal men's maturity or lack thereof as well.
Postuar nga Endri datë 19 Tetor 2012 - 12:13:
Oh dear...
Postuar nga RAIMONDI datë 19 Tetor 2012 - 20:50:
Jma kurioz te degjoj Cecen si e kupton ajo qe eshte love ?
Postuar nga Endri datë 22 Dhjetor 2014 - 12:47:
Citim:
Po citoj ato që tha lule
Ne radhe t'pare Endri, uroj qe kto fjale ti mendosh vetem virtualisht.. se ne kete kohe, s'besoj se ka mashkull ti thote, ndryshe i bie..eh s'ja vlen ta them.
do thuash ti pse ?! seems from the way you talk and appreciate woman.....in your life you maybe taste only the bad side.....i'm surprised...so poor is your background??!!
to find yourselfe on mistress!!!!
I think I owe you a reply.
These responses most of them are virtual jokes and only to get a rise out a 'specific type of woman' since we were all exchanging in a tit-for-tat way these jokes. I think it is time for a reevaluation of this thread.
My final evaluation is that women have a lot of burden by default. Biologically, the burden in that they have to suffer the consequences of giving birth. This does not mean that they are less than, just means they are different. Psychologically in that they are more receptive to irrationality(hence the jokes we made that women are crazy and unpredictable) than men. This makes them have a higher emotional intelligence. But sometimes it also acts as a burden. I do believe in chivalry... p.s chivalry was created in middle ages and it rises with the recognition of the feminine aspect in man... however that and being treated like princesses since early age are different things. Don't get me wrong, I still think they are crazy but at least it's understandable why they are so.
We should all appreciate the differences in gender.
Pershendetje!!
Postuar nga Fajtori datë 23 Dhjetor 2014 - 11:15:
Citim:
Po citoj ato që tha Endri
My final evaluation is that women have a lot of burden by default. Biologically, the burden in that they have to suffer the consequences of giving birth. .... Psychologically in that they are more receptive to irrationality(hence the jokes we made that women are crazy and unpredictable) than men.
Stay sure that they don't carry the burden alone. All their life is aimed at finding some other being to share the burden. That's why the men proposes, the woman accepts the marriage. Not the other way round.
About irrationality, I wouldn't call it like that. I would call it mood swings. It comes from their monthly cycle, pregnancy, oxytocine released after orgasm, etc. Again, those mood swings are not completely irrational, perhaps they serve the purpose of keeping the male in check mate as long as possible, and sometimes not recognizing that they need a new mate, they were told one male should be enough and cannot consciously accept the need for another one. To my understanding fights started by women often carry the unconscious intent of making couple life so miserable that you split up, so she can calm herself with the idea that "was left alone to carry some burden". :p
Postuar nga Endri datë 24 Dhjetor 2014 - 01:58:
By irrationality I mean everything that is not made conscious. Mood swings are a loss of conscious control and therefore irrational. The burden that comes with pregnancy or birth is nonetheless a burden and that women get reminded of it every month. We got it easy because our only burden is finding food/hunger or finding a mate/reproduction. Which means when it comes to emotional life, a woman is far more aware of their own selves than we men are. They are more connected to nature whereas we men try to conquer nature and our instincts but we miserably fail at it from time to time. If there is anything we should learn is that nature always wins and cannot be conquered. Men complain about marriage because they see this institution as a kind of a transfer payment system between genders. It also limits us to one partner, you know, the idea to dedicating your life to one partner.