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Hipnoza........
Mendova ta hap kete teme sepse nga eksperienca personale kam nxjerre qe informacioni mbi kete argument pervec se eshte i paket i ngjan me shume nje disinformacioni. Hipnoza ne pergjithesi eshte e mbuluar nga nje veshje miti, kjo gje edhe midis studenteve te psikologjise. KAQ.
Duke mos ditur se ca i intereson gjitheseicilit ( ne se i intereson, ne rradhe te pare ) nuk dua te flas me shume "neper te" duke ftuar cdo te interesuar te drejtoje ( jo vetem ne drejtimin tim, vetkuptohet ) pyetjet qe i lindin ( apo qe e mundojne ). Normalisht une personalisht jam shume larg te qenit nje ekspert ne kete fushe, por do te isha i lumtur t'i sherbeja ne ndonje fare menyre ( jo vetem me pergjigje, por mbase edhe duke shkembyer ide, mbase edhe me vete faktin qe hapa kete teme ( keshtu te tjeret me me njohuri se mua te mund te shprehin edhe ata mendimin e tyre )) cdo te interesuari.
Ketu po shtoj gjithashtu edhe ndonje adrese per te interesuarit ( ne heshtje ( jo vetem per ata vetekuptohet )).
www.neurolinguistic.com
http://www.hypnos.co.uk/freedown.htm
http://easyweb.easynet.co.uk/~dylan...ganic/index.htm
Shijojeni....
teme shume interesante. personalisht ndoshta kam pare shume filma dhe ideja ime per hipnozen eshte paksa artistike prandaj nese mundesh jam shume kurioze te di cfare eshte konkretisht, nese eshte nje veti e fituar apo e lindur ( mundet cdo njeri te hipnotizoje?) dhe perse sherben. si mund te hipnotizohet nje njeri dhe te jete ne gjendje te kujtoje gjert qe jane te fshehura ne subkoshiencen e tij dhe eshte e rrezikshme apo jo?
ne nje film kam pare qe nje psikiater permes hipnozes kishte zhdukur komplet personalitetin dikujt, kujtimet, kush ishte, etj etj.
flm per kohen
1. ( Cfare eshte konkretisht? ) Hipnoza eshte nje gjendje psikologjike e karakterizuar nga nje hiperfokusim ( perqendrim shume i larte ) ne nje ide apo realitet te brendshem dhe nga nje shkeputje dhe indiference ndaj ambientit te jashtem ( ketyre gjerave do t'u kthehemi vazhdimisht keshtu mos u shqeteso ne se nuk i ke shume te qarta qe tani ). Si te gjitha gjendjet psikologjike eshte dinamike ( e ndryshueshme ne kohe ) psh. nje njeri mund te hyje ne nje gjendje te thelle hipnoze dhe pak nga pak ( ne se lihet i qete, pa sugjestione ) te kaloje ne gjendje me pak te thella derisa te dale nga hipnoza ( apo ta zere gjumi ). Ketu duhet te sqarojme qe gjumi i zakonshem nuk ka te beje fare me hipnozen megjithese kur hipnotizojme ne pazientit mund t'i themi fli...fli...fli... ( e bejme kete thjesht per te arritur nje gjendje sa me te qetesuar dhe sa me te shkeputur nga ambienti i jashtem apo nga tensionet ).
Psikika jone eshte e perbere ( sic mud ta dine shume veta ) nga vetedija dhe pavetedija. Ne momentet e jetes se perditshme vetedija kontrollon pjesen e aktiviteteve tona te vullnetshme ( psh. leviz krahun e djathte ( ne se ne duam ta levizim )) dhe gjithashtu filtron shume nga impulset qe vijne nga pavetedija. Kur ky kontroll bie ( konsiderueshem ) dhe ne jemi akoma zgjuar ( dmth jo ne gjumin tradicional qe njohim ne ) fillojne te verifikohen disa dukuri karaktreristike te kontrolluara tashme ( konsiderueshem ) nga pavetedija. Kjo gjendje quhet TRANS ( apo gjendje TRANSI ). Dhe i gjithe procesi qe ka cuar ne arritjen dhe mbajtjen e kasaj gjendje quhet hipnoze, e cila mund te ndahet ne auto-hipnoze ne se e ka bere vete individi i hipnotizuar dhe ne hetero-hipnoze ne se e ka bere nje individ i ndryshem nga ai i hipnotizuar.
Normalisht kjo ishte per ti thjeshtesuar nja cike gjerat se sic e thashe me lart transi nuk eshte vetem i karakterizuar nga nje renie e kontrollit te vetedijes se ndryshe do te ishte nje gjume i zakonshem por gjithashtu nga nje perqendrim i larte ne nje ide apo realitet te brendshem, psh. individi eshte i perqendruar shume ne ngritjen e krahut te tij te djathte dhe krahu ngrihet ne menyre te pavullnetshme, individi eshte i perqendruar se krahu i tij eshte i ngrohte/i ftohte dhe krahu i tij behet i ngrohte/i ftohte.
Ketu shohim qe dukurite qe realizohen nuk jane vetem proceset e vetedijshme qe tani kryhen me ane te pavetedijes por edhe vete proceset e pavetedijshem ( autonom ) te cilet tani mund te kryhen duke komanduar pavetedijen. Pra hipnoza eshte edhe nje rruge hyrje per ne pavetedije ( per ta ndikuar ate ).
Normalisht qe tema eshte shume shume e gjere, por une po ndalem ketu per kete pyetje per te mos ngaterruar me shume se sa te shtjelloj gjerat. Gjithnje e me shume gjerat do te behen me te qarta vete ( me kalimin e kohes ).
2. ( Eshte nje veti e fituar apo e lindur? ). Eshte nje veti, por me shume eshte nje veti e te hipnotizuarit se sa e hipnotizuesit. normalisht kushdo mund te mesoje te hipnotizoje, por jo te hipnotizoje kedo. Meqe njerezit jane te ndryshem nga ana psikike ( si biologjikisht edhe nga ana e eksperiencave te jetes ) atehere edhe kundrejt hipnozes ata do te paraqiten te ndryshem. Do te kete njerez me te prirur ( me responsive ) dhe njerez me pak te tille. Normalisht qe meqe sic thashe me lart ketu hyn edhe ana biologjike ( gjenetike ) kjo "veti" ( prirje ) do te jete pjeserisht e lindur por eshte dicka qe mund edhe te fitohet ( mesohet ).
3. ( Perse sherben? ) Sherben per cdo lloj gjeje qe mund te te vije ne mend ( gati cdo lloj gjeje ) dhe te cilat une ( dhe jo vetem une ) nuk mund t'i parashikoj te gjitha, te gjitha perdorimet qe mund te kete ( si tani edhe ne te ardhmen ). Por une mund te them perse duhet te sherbeje per mendimin tim. Duhet te sherbeje per te ndihmuar njerezit si nga ana shendetsore ashtu edhe nga ana psikike. Duhet te sherbeje per ata qe kerkojne me shume nga vetja ( ndertimin e vetvetes ) si dhe per ata qe kerkojne ta njohin me shume veten. Ketu sa per te pasur nje ide mund te them qe vetem aplikimet ne shendetesi jane te pafundme...qe nga kurimi i kancerit dhe deri tek nje anestezi lokale banale.
4. ( si mund te hipnotizohet nje njeri dhe te jete ne gjendje te kujtoje gjert qe jane te fshehura ne subkoshiencen e tij dhe eshte e rrezikshme apo jo? ) Sic thashe me pare hipnoza eshte edhe nje rruge hyrje ne pavetedije dhe keshtu ne mund te ndikojme ( dhe te nxjerrim nga ajo informacione ) shume me teper se me ane te vetedijes ( se ne nje gjendje normale ).
Per te ditur se si mund te hipnotizohet nje njeri mjafton te hapesh ato adresat qe kam vene me siper. I kam zgjedhur enkas sepse jane nga adresat e pakta ku permbahen manuale hipnoze dhe auto-hipnoze ( falas ) dhe shume artikuj te tjere ( po falas ).
Hipnoza eshte e rrezikshme ne se nuk behet nga nje ekspert apo duke mos qene ekspert kerkohet shume me ane te saj ( psh. te trajtohen semundje mendore ). Ne pergjithesi eshte e sigurte por ka raste qe ne duart e ndonje jo-eksperti i cili futet ne gjera qe nuk i takojne ( sepse ne se nje jo-ekspert kufizohet vetem te te fute ne gjendjen e TRANSIT ( pa asnje lloj trajtimi te vecante ) apo mund te te jape disa lloj sugjestionesh banale ( psh. ti ndihesh e gezuar, mire dhe e lumtur ) mund te them se kjo eshte e parrezikshme, por ne se hyn ne metoda qe nuk i njeh apo sugjestionet jane te komplikuara dhe vete ai nuk e di se ku po futet kjo do te thote qe ai rrezikon shume te humbase dhe humbja do te thote shume probleme te tjera per pazientin te cilat ai nuk i merr vesh) atehere eshte e rrezikshme.
Po ashtu eshte e rrezikshme ne duar me qellime jo te mira.
4. ( ne nje film kam pare qe nje psikiater permes hipnozes kishte zhdukur komplet personalitetin dikujt, kujtimet, kush ishte, etj etj. ) Teorikisht kjo mund te ndodhe por di qe eshte shume e veshtire. Personaliteti do pune te ndryshohet por edhe qe te zhukesh te gjitha kujtimet nuk eshte shaka. Nuk mund te jap ndonje mendim me te detajuar se kaq ( sorry ).
Shpresoj te jesh sqaruar sadopak ne lidhje me hipnozen, por normalisht mos prit t'i kesh te gjitha te qarta qe ne fillim sepse eshte nje teme shume e gjere dhe shume e parrahur. Per cdo pyetje.......tema per kete eshte.......
Hipnoza ka qene nje objekt debati e polemikash te shumta. Eshte ca e veshtire ta shpjegosh konkretisht si dukuri por ne pergjithesi mendohet si nje gjendje e ndryshuar e vetedijes.
Keto vitet e fundit specialiste te ndryshem, mjeke, psikiater, psikologe e sugjerojne hipnozen si mjekim. Mjekimi i semundjeve me ane te hipnozes mund te lehtesoje dhimbjet gjate lindjes, te zevendesoje anestezine, te kuroje dhemjet e kokes, te te ndihmoje te lesh duhanin, drogen, te permiresoje procesin e kujteses dhe te studimit....
Nje pyetje e kisha sepse jam e paqarte... A mendoni se Hipnoza ka nje fare lidhje edhe me magjine? Me ka lindur kjo pyetje pasi kam lexuar se efektet e hipnozes arrijne deri ne veprime e qendrime te mbinatyrshme... Nese ka njeri dijeni apo ndonje argument lidhur me kete, te na e shkruaj e me pas kam dhe une dicka per te shtuar...
See ya
Ka shume njerez qe mendojne se ne gjendjen e hipnozes mund te ndodhin dukuri paranormale ( ka edhe shume qe nuk mendojne keshtu, ama ). Nuk di te kete studime te qarta mbi kete pike keshtu qe te mund te kene arritur ne nje perfundim pak a shume shkencor. Por ne nje liber-permbledhje te punimeve paranormale ( perfshire eksperimentet dhe studimet mbi kete fushe ) qe kam lexuar nuk kam hasur ndonje punim ne lidhje me hipnozen. Eshte nje fushe shume joshese dhe tek njerezit qe besojne se hipnoza ka lidhje me dukurite paranormale mund te me shtoni edhe mua
Cdo te thuash me dukuri paranormale Aljohin?
Dhe e dyta, nese ke dhene ndonje pergjigje dhe se kam marre vesh pak me siper, lidhur me gershetimin e hipnozes me magjine, apo ske dijeni?
1. Paranormale? A e ke pare x-files? Nejse ke te drejte se ne fakt libri qe kam lexuar ka qene kryesisht per parapsikologjine por permblidhte edhe dukurite paranormale ne pergjithesi ( ato me te dokumentuarat ). Me paranormale doja te permblidhja dukuri qe nuk mund te shpjegohen nga lidhjet shkak-pasoje qe ne njohim deri tani ( normalisht eshte nje perkufizim shume i paarrire, por do mundohem ta shpjegoj me disa shembuj ) psh. operacionet me duar te filipinasve, magjia e zeze, telepatia, shfaqjet e fantazmave, pervoja jashte trupit ( OBE ), psikokinezia etj....
2. Per lidhjen e hipnozes me magjine ( duke e futur magjine tek nje dukuri paranormale ) doja te thoja se nuk ka per mendimin tim punime serioze ( dhe studime te tilla ) qe te merren parasysh per ta diskutuar kete teme, keshtu qe i vetmi diskutim qe mund te bejme eshte ne ate se ca ne besojme.
smiles
Po ju postoj nje abstrakt te nje artikulli shume interesant. Me vjen shume keq qe eshte ne anglisht po une kam me te vertete kohe qe ta perkthej ne shqip. Ndoshta mund te bej nje permbledhje ne ndonje postim tjeter.
Skeptical Inquirer, May-June 1996 v20 n3 p15(2)
NOVA's alien abduction program shows questionable techniques. ('debunking' the false memory theory) C. Eugene Emery Jr..
Abstract: The NOVA program on alien abductions, 'Kidnapped by UFOs?', was innovative in its attempt but quite unconvincing in its guided efforts to show how abductees can be influenced by hypnoses, leading them to embrace facts and experiences which never happened. The interview techniques employed seem to convey that if the abductees' claims matched those of other abductees, the experiences were, henceforth, judged as real. Adding to the program's dubious objectivity are observations that the show utilized the talents of well-known UFO proponents and paranormal enthusiasts.
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Gjithashtu ka nje mori studimesh mbi implentimin e memorjes (krijimin e kujtimeve mbi gjera qe ne te vertete nuk kane ndodhur)thjesht nepermjet intervistave sygjeruese, mendo cfare mund te behet me hipnoze...
Shume e vertete. Eshte vene re qe nen hipnoze ( sidomos ) subjekti ne se nuk ka nje informacion te mjaftueshem per situaten qe duhet te krijoje ( keshtu duket ( po mund ndikojne edhe shume faktore te tjere )) priret t'i mbushe keto boshlleqe me informacion te sajuar......Kjo eshte dhe nje kufizim shume i trishtueshem i perdorimit te hipnozes ne kriminologji......( apo kudo tjeter ne se do te ishte per qellim nxjerrja e nje informacioni te vertete...).
Hipnoza
Shkrimet e ruajtura nga popujt e lashte qe jetonin rreth lumejve Efurat dhe Tiger, tregojne se populli me i vjeter i njohur per kulture ne bote, sumeret, qysh 4000 vjete para e.r. e kan njohur hipnozen dhe jan sherbyer me te.
marre nga libri i " Parapiskologjia" Sabir Krasniqi
Shikoni ne librin " Hipnoza" te po keti autori ku mund t'u mesoj hap pas api se si mund te arrini te hipnotizoni pacientin
Parapsikologjia & Hipnoza
Fjala parapsikologji është konceptuar qysh në vitin 1889, por është pranuar ndërkombëtarisht në dekadat e fundit. Më herët këto dukuri anglezët i quanin kërkime psikike (Psychical research), ndërsa francezët metopsi_kologji , ndërsa prof. Dr. Hans Beneder nga Univers_iteti i Frajburgut, e quajti shqisa e gjashtë.
Në mesjetë këto dukuri të pashpjegueshme i quanin magji, dhe ishin të ndaluara. Dënoheshin të gjithë ata që merreshin me to. Që nga shekulli XVI këto “feno_mene të dreqit” u quajtën okultizëm - nga latinishtja – sekret, fshehtësi, diçka e fshehtë.
Fjala parapsikologji rrjedh nga greqishtja dhe do të thotë para - pranë, psych - shpirt dhe logos - shkencë, di_t_uri, mendim.
Parapsikologjia është degë e psikologjisë, e cila me_rret me studimin e dukurive, që janë jashtë fuqisë së të kuptuarit të shqisave tona, kurse shpesh i kalojnë edhe ligjet ekzistue_se të shkencës bashkëkohore.
Enciklopedia amerikane, botuar në vitin 1973, për_m_ban një artikull mjaft të gjatë të Prof. T. Rinit, në të cilin parapsikologjia përkufizohet si pjesë e psikolo_gj_i_së. Ai paraqet historikun e parapsikologjisë, duke pa_ra_qitur shembuj bindës dhe shpjegime shkencore për këtë fushë të diturisë.
Sipas tij, parapsikologjia është diçka e psikologjisë që merret me përjetimet dhe sjelljet paranormale, siç është: telepatia, parashikimi i ngjarjeve, bioenergjia etj., të cilat janë të pashpjegueshme dhe lidhen me li_gj_et e natyrës. Për këtë arsye, ato quhen shpesh edhe pa_ra_n_o_r_m_ale, supernormale. Pra, edhe pse në to nuk ka asgjë paranormale, aludohet se i përkasin anës tjetër. Ato nuk janë veçse fenomene normale të natyrës.
Enciklopedia ruse e vitit 1975 shkruan që parapsi_k_o_logjia studion: 1) Formën e ndjeshmërisë, e cila e bën të mundur dhe e rrit aftësinë e marrjes së infor_ma_ci_o_n_e_ve që janë të pashpjegueshme nga shqisat tona orga_nike; 2) Format e përshtatshme të veprimit të krije_save të gjalla në paraqitjet e tyre që zhvillohen jashtë orga_niz_mit, pra pa forcën e muskujve.
Në Enciklopedinë franceze të vitit 1967 shkruan: “Pa_rapsikologjia është disiplinë që studion fenomene pa_ranormale, siç janë: telepatia, parashikimi, parandje_sh_mëria etj.
Shumë mashtrues janë futur dhe e kanë shkatërruar këtë fushë të diturisë, sepse shkencëtarët ia kanë kthyer shpinën duke e lënë si fushë të hapur për manipulim nga sharlatanët.
Në Enciklopedinë shqiptare nuk ka kurrfarë shëni_mesh për parapsikologjinë.
Klubi i parë i okulistëve në Ballkan u formua në Sa_rajevë në vitin 1937, me emërtimin “Lanterna ma_gica”, të cilit i printe okulisti i mirënjohur Ismet Taba_koviq.
Tek ne në Kosovë me parapsikologji merret intensi_visht një grup i autorëve nga Prizreni. Këtë grup e për_bë_jnë: Salih Basha, pionier i parapsikologjisë, Sabir Krasniqi (autor i dy librave mbi parapsikologjinë dhe hipnozën) etj.
Sipas të dhënave, sot në më se pesëdhjetë shtete stu_diohen në mënyrë shkencore dukuritë parapsikolo_gjike dhe për këtë qëllim janë formuar rreth njëqind e pesëdhjetë (150) institute për parapsikologjinë. Në ko_hën tonë kemi me mijëra libra e artikuj që janë shkruar nëpër gazeta, revista të ndryshme dhe emisione televi_zive, që flasin për këtë lëmë.
Përveç anëve pozitive që ka për shkencën, para_psi_kologjia bëhet armë e fuqishme, në qoftë se keqpër_do_r_et. Pasojat mund të jenë të paparashikueshme për nje_rëzimin. Fatkeqësisht, në shumë institute të botës sot punohet intensivisht për krijimin e një arme të tillë psi_kike, ose siç e quajnë ndryshe “gjenerator psikotro_nik”, që është i ndaluar me norma ndërkombëtare.
Supozohet se arritje më të mëdha në këtë drejtim kanë bërë SHBA-ja. Doktori i shkencave filozofike nga Rusia, Todor Diçev, thotë: “Një gjenerator i tillë ka ek_zistuar në kohën e puçit në Rusi, më 18-19 gusht 1991, në anijen e fluturakeve amerikane “Belkap”, në portin Varna, prej nga është kontrolluar mendimi psikik i tur_mës”. Ai gjithashtu thotë se M. Gorbaçov dhe B. Jel_cin janë njerëz “zombi”, siç quhen ndryshe këta njerëz, dhe janë nën ndikimin e këtij gjeneratori psikotronik.
Disa shkencëtarë mendojnë se këto kërkime janë pa vlerë, se njeriu nuk mund të ndikojë mbi njeriun tjetër nga largësia dhe të gjitha diskutimet rreth “gjeneratorit psikotronik” nuk kanë bazë. Mirëpo, me anë të ekspe_rimenteve të shumta është vërtetuar se jo vetëm secili njeri, por edhe secila qelizë e gjallë posedon aftësi për rrezatimin e informacioneve nga largësia.
Shumica e parapsikologëve parapsikologjinë e nda_jnë në disa grupe. Këto janë: hipnoza, parashikimi, telepatia, telekineza, spiritizmi, magjia, bioenergjia, ra_diestezia etj. T’i shpjegojmë këto shkurtimisht para se t’i trajtojmë nga këndvështrimi islam.
Hipnoza
Fjala hipnozë (hypnos) rrjedh nga greqishtja dhe do të thotë “gjumë”. Shoqata e Mjekëve Britanikë e për_kufizon hipnozën si “gjendje kaluese e kujdesit të zvo_gëluar të pacientit, gjendje në të cilën mund të shfa_qen paraqitje të ndryshme personale ose të provokuara nga rrethi i jashtëm”. Prof. Çarls Mater i Universitetit të Majamit, thotë: “Hipnoza është gjendje e ndry_shu_eshme e vetëdijes, të cilën e karakterizon rritja e përqe_ndrimit, rritja e relaksimit dhe rritja e sugjestivitetit”.
Në gjumë normal pacienti nuk merr përshtypjet e jashtme, ndërsa në gjumë hipnotik dëgjohen edhe pësh_përimat më të vogla. Në gjumin normal janë të spos_tuara aktivitetet mentale, ndërsa në gjumin hipnotik janë të gjallëruara.
Hipnoza ka ndikim të thellë në tërë organizmin. Në gjendje hipnotike pulsi mund të shpejtohet apo të nga_dalësohet. Gjithashtu edhe frymëmarrja dhe sistemi ne_u_rovegjetativ pësojnë ndryshime. Këto ndryshime mani_festohen me: djersitje, urinim, kollë, hiperstezi, hiper_te_nsion, kriptomenzi, amnezi etj. Për këtë qëllim hipnoza përdoret me sukses në shërimin e shumë sëmu_ndjeve psikike dhe psikosomatike, siç janë: ulcera në lu_kth në zorrën dymbëdhjetëgishtore, urinimi i pakon_trolluar etj.
Në obstretikë hipnoza ndihmon që fëmija të lindet pa dhembje, në stomatologji dhe në kirurgji për ta mu_nd_ur frikën me rastin e operimit. Hipnoza zbatohet gji_thashtu me shumë sukses në shërimin e alkoolizmit, lënien e duhanit, kundër narkomanisë etj.
Gjithashtu është mjaft i rëndësishëm fakti që njeriu hipnotik është plotësisht nën kontrollin e hipnotizuesit. Meqenëse sugjestioni në gjendje hipnotike është mjaft i rritur, kurse ndikimi i logjikës tepër i vogël (në mini_mum), hipnotikut jo vetëm se mund t’i sugjes_tionohet nënshtrimi para vullnetit të dikujt, mashtrimi i shqis_ave, por edhe t’i krijohen probleme mjaft të ndër_li_ku_a_ra. Kjo ndodh jo vetëm në gjendje hipnotike, por edhe pas zgji_mit. Ky quhet sugjestionim pashi_pnotik apo pashipnozë, dhe mund të zgjasë me vite të tëra. Kjo e bën të mundur që hipnoza të abuzohet për qëllime të ndryshme të liga, si vjedhje, mashtrime, dhunime e deri në vrasje. Gjith_a_shtu kjo mund të keqpërdoret në luftëra të ndryshme, për propagandë dhe për qëllime politike.
Sot ekzistojnë mënyra të ndryshme për të hipno_tizuar, duke filluar nga ato klasiket e deri tek substancat kimike.
Njihen tri shkallë të hipnozës:
1) Hipnoza e lehtë, që nënkupton relaksimin derisa kur vetëdija është ende e zgjuar, por mediumi i pranon sugjestionet e hipnotizuesit.
2) Hipnoza e mesme, fazë që vjen pas hipnozës së lehtë. Në këtë fazë relaksimi është më i thellë, vetëdija është ende aktive, ndërsa mediumi merr dhe i kryen të gjitha sugjestionet, por nuk bie në kundërshtim të për_gjithshëm me strukturën e personalitetit të tij.
3) Hipnoza e thellë. Në këtë hipnozë relaksimi është absolut, vetëdija është joaktive dhe mediumi i kry_en edhe sugjestionet e palogjikshme, duke iu nën_shtr_uar vu_llnetit të hipnotizuesit. Në këtë gjendje të the_llë hi_p_n_o_tike mund të arrihet edhe shtangia e plotë e trupit (katalepsia), zhdukja e plotë e dhembjes (anes_tezia), hu_mbja e plotë e ndjeshmërisë (analgezia) etj.
Në këtë gjendje, mediumit i ndodhin edhe mash_tri_me pozitive ose negative, si dhe është i mundshëm re__gresioni.
Keqpërdorimi i hipnozës
Për shkak të mundësive dhe forcës së madhe të ve_primit, hipnoza, po qe se keqpërdoret, mund të bëhet armë e fu_qish_me me pasoja të shumëfishta.
Me përdorimin e suksesshëm të narkoanalizës për hipnotizim në mjekësinë legale, u shtua interesimi për hipnozën në rrethet policore dhe filloi zbatimi i saj si mjet shumë efikas për zbulimin e së vërtetës. Ajo u quajt “serumi i së vërtetës”. Duke hipnotizuar personat për të cilët dyshohej se kishin kryer akte kriminale ose amorale (me anë të sub_sta_n_c_ave kimike dhe pa dëshirën e tyre), inspektorët pa përdorimin e dhunës, merrnin informacione të sakta për krimet e kryera.
Shpëlarja e trurit është metoda më bindëse e keq_përdorimit të hipnozës. Kjo metodë, përveç ndryshimit të qëndrimeve, mendimeve, bindjeve të personit, mu_ndëson edhe kthimin e armikut në një bashkëpu_nëtor aktiv. Dr M.T. Ormantar, anëtar i Institutit të Filadel_fisë, u mor shumë me zbatimin e hipnozës për qëllime të armatës; ai hipnotizonte ushtarët dhe në gjendje të thellë hipnotike, të përcjellë me amnezi totale, u jepte detyra të rëndësishme.
Supozohet se të gjithë funksionarët e lartë ush_tara_kë të SHBA-së dhe të paktit NATO, që kanë njohuri për materialet tepër të rëndësishme politike dhe ushta_rake, kalojnë nëpër procesin e indoktrinimit për neut_ralizimin e efektit.
Timon Liri, i cili ishte një kohë të gjatë bashkë_pu_nëtor i CIA-s, thotë se vetëm në Amerikë CIA kontr_ollon rreth 30.000 veta me anë të drogave.
Metoda të këtilla, jashtëligjore dhe antinjerëzore, u përdorën shumë sidomos në shtetet ish-socialiste. UDB-ja përdorte mënyra të tilla ndaj të burgosurve të pa_th_y_sh_ëm të kombit shqiptar, duke i paaftësuar ata për jetë normale dhe duke u shkatërruar personalitetin dhe mo_ralin e tyre.
Në kuadër të hipnozës përdoret shumë shpesh su_gjestioni pashipnotik apo pashipnoza. Ky lloj sugjes_ti_o_ni është i rëndësishëm në hipnozë, sepse veprimet rea_lizohen pas da_ljes nga gjendja e hipnozës. Ato ndikime mund të veprojnë një kohë të pacaktuar dhe varen nga sugjestionimi në kohën kur njeriu ka qenë nën ndikimin e hipnozës. Duke pasur parasysh këtë fakt, lind pyetja: A mund të detyrohen njerëzit që të kryejnë veprime që janë në kundërshtim me besimin, moralin, etikën dhe traditën religjioze të tyre me anë të hipnozës? Ka shu_më fakte dhe një literaturë të gjerë që e vërteton këtë. Stefan Cvajg, në librin e tij Shëruesi mental, përmend «rastin e Leidelbergut». Ai tregon se një grua 34 vjeçe u shërua disa vjet me anë të hipnozës dhe pastaj atë e abuzuan seksualisht, duke e shitur edhe tek të tjerët.
Me gjithë faktin se është i ndaluar nga shumë aso_ciaci_one botërore, keqpërdorimi i hipnozës ka shtrirje të madhe dhe me pasoja tepër të rënda për njerëzimin.
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Pergezimet e mia!
Pune me te vertete e vlefshme! Ate qe kerkoja nga te gjithe bashkebiseduesit....nje pjesemarrje aktive.
Doja vetem te saktesoja disa gjera ( te vogla ):
1.Parapsikologjia dhe paranormalja ndryshojne vetem ne ate qe paranormalja permbledh nje numer me te madh te dukurive se sa parapsikologjia. Permbledh edhe ato qe nuk kane te bejne me psikiken e njeriut si psh: magjia, ufo-t, fantazmat, etj...
2. Nuk jam i azhornuar per 2 vitet e fundit por parapsikologjia nuk eshte nje dege e psikologjise. Di qe per kete po luftohej shume dhe ka ashtu sic the ti shume institute neper bote, nga te cilet me i rendesishmi ne shkalle boterore eshte ai i Duke University ne Durham,por akoma nuk eshte pranuar si shkence.
3. Nuk eshte e vertete qe i hipnotizuari eshte plotesisht nen pushtetin e hipnotizuesit. Teorikisht ama mund te behet. Dmth nje hipnotizues shume shume shume i mire mund te beje gati ( jo tamam gati ) gjithcka. Ama per ta sqaruar se si eshte gjendja ne nivelin praktik ia vlen te permendet fakti se gjeniu i hipnozes Erikson nuk mund te bente gjithcka me pazientet e tij. Per te gjithe te tjeret....no comment
Me kujtove qe nuk kisha vene literaturen e perdorur ( ne fakt nuk eshte se e kisha harruar por deri tani nuk po shihja ndonje interes te vecante nga pjesemarresit, sidomos per literaturen e perdorur ).
Bibliografia:
L'ipnosi.........Alfonso Siani ( itali ).
Ipnoterapia......Milton Erikson ( Itali i perkthyer nga anglishtja, botimi fillestar ne Usa ).
Parapsicologia
( la scienza contestata )............ Charls Broughton ( I perkthyer nga anglishtja,botimi fillestar: Usa, drejtor i institutit te kerkimeve parapsikologjike ne Duke University ).
Normalisht edhe adresat e internetit qe kam vene ne nje shkrim pak me lart.
Gazeta "E Panjohura".......
Smiles
Per sa i perket 3 fazave te hipnozes une i njoh ndryshe.
1. Faza e somnolences ( vjen nga fjala gjume ). Gjendja e pacientit ne kete faze i ngjan nje dremitjeje te lehte. Ai pranon sugjestione te thjeshta por eshte akoma ndjeshem i lidhur me ambientin perreth.
2. Faza e katalepsise apo e hipotaksise. Faze me e thelle e cila karakterizohet ( sic e thote edhe emri ) nga mundesia per ti dhene pacientit poza shume te veshtira per tu mbajtur ne gjendje normale dhe ai i mban per nje kohe te gjate... psh. mund t'i vihet maja e kokes ne nje karrige dhe majat e themrave ne nje tjeter dhe hipnotizuesi mund ti hypi edhe siper dhe pacienti vazhdon ta mbaje kete pozicion per nje kohe te koniderueshme. Sugjestionet qe mund te pranohen ketu, si faze me e thelle, jane me te shumta.
3. Faza e somnambulizmit. Vete nga emri, karakterizohet nga mundesia per ta bere pacientin te ece perreth ne menyre te pavetedijshme dhe akoma nen hipnoze, te beje plot veprime te tjera si somnambul. Ne kete faze mund te shkaktohen plage ( me ane te sugjestionit ), diegie, levizje te temperatures disa grade dhe pacienti zakonisht paraqet nje amnezi ( nje humbje te kujteses ) post-hipnotike gje qe nuk e paraqet ne 2 fazat e tjera ( zakonisht ).
Kjo pervec se nuk eshte nje ndarje kategorike eshte edhe pak e vjeter ( te pakten une e kam lexuar para nja 7 vjetesh dhe ne ate moment kishte dhe nja 30 vjet qe ishte ne fuqi ). Nuk di ne se kane futur te tjera apo jo, por megjithate eshte e vlefshme per te patur nje ide kur leviz vertikalisht ne nivelet e hipnozes ( se c'ndodh ). Ne pergjithesi tani eshte ideja qe hipnoza ka shume nivele dhe sa me te thella qe te jene ato aq me shume sugjestione do te pranohen dhe aq me shume dukuri hipnotike do te ndodhin ( pervec rastit te nje gjendje shume te thelle te hipnozes qe quhet faza e vdekjes, faze kjo jo e pranuar nga i gjithe komuniteti i hipnotisteve ( kjo sepse eshte shume e veshtire te haset ). Kjo faze eshte kaq thelle sa sugjestionet e hipnotizuesit ( perfshire ketu edhe sugjestionet per te zgjuar ) refuzohen nga pazienti ).
Doja te korrigjoja nje gabim tek mesazhi im paraardhes. Tek bibliografia emri i autorit te librit Parapsicologia ( la scienca contestata ) eshte Charls ne fakt duhet te jete Richard ( kerkoj faje per gabimin ).
Gjithashtu doja te shtoja tek bibliografia Librin "Hipnoza dhe feja"
i autorit Ulvi Vehbiu ( vendodhja... biblioteke kombetare tirane ).
Disa raste hipnoterapie
H HY YP PN NO OS SI IS S H HE EA AL LS S
S Se el le ec ct te ed d case histories from the files of
Professional Hypnotherapists
Edited by
Lisa Knight
You may freely distribute this ebook providing you:
Make no changes
Give it away free
Offer the ebook intact
Published by The Chessnut Press
for
The International Registry of Professional Hypnotherapists
http://www.hypnosis.org
Each case is copyright © by its respective author.
Overall copyright © 2003 Bryan M. Knight
Contents
Introduction 3
Cancer and the Subconscious Yvonne Schwab 4 4
A Case of Toxic Psychology Bruce K. Stampley 10
Past-Life Regression Barrie Anson 13
Child’s Play: Overeating Maurice Kouguell 15
Emma and Gabriel’s Birth Story Jean-Claude Zekri 28
Anxiety Attacked Maurice Kouguell 32
The Case of Quivering Frank Bruce K. Stampley 41
A Good Talent for Hypnosis Bryan M. Knight 46
The International Registry of Professional Hypnotherapists 50
Introduction
You are invited to enjoy these case histories selected from the files of
professional hypnotherapists.
The therapists, from several countries, are members of The International
Registry of Professional Hypnotherapists, founded by Dr Bryan Knight.
Of course, all identifying details of clients have been changed. Any
resemblances to people you know is coincidental.
The cases have been chosen to present an overview of the many issues
hypnotherapists deal with. And to indicate some of the various inductions
we use.
Inclusion of a case history in this ebook does not necessarily mean that all
the authors agree with either the subject or the techniques described by their
colleagues.
You may freely distribute this ebook as long as you keep it totally intact.
Your comments would be appreciated.
Email them to Dr Bryan Knight at drknight@hypnosis.org
Thanks.
BMK
Cancer and the Subconscious
Yvonne Schwab
In May of 1999, I met “Cindy” for the first time. She had been diagnosed
with cancer of the lymph nodes in the throat and was concerned because her
surgeon had indicated that he was going to remove all the lymph nodes in
her throat. She had scary dreams and thoughts of her throat being cut from
one side to the other.
During the “pre talk” portion of the session, we discussed her options at
length—she could decline the surgery and let nature take its course, she
could utilize alternative health remedies, or she could use the power of her
subconscious mind to assist her in getting the best results from her surgery.
She opted for the third process. We discovered that a major part of her
concern with having the surgery was that she only had cancer in one of the
lymph nodes, yet her doctor was planning on removing them all.
She and her family had done quite a bit of research on surgeons, and found
that her doctor was one of the best in his field … and the best in the area, but
this did not help her to feel better about his lack of bedside manner.
She also had concerns about pain, and about scarring on her throat …
according to the doctor, one slip of the scalpel could eliminate her ability to
smile and “I’m a smiler”, she said.
After assisting Cindy to achieve a deep state of relaxation, I invited her
subconscious mind to become open and receptive to the positive suggestions
I was giving it.
I suggested that Cindy could trust her doctor to do the best possible job for
her, that he would only take the lymph node with the cancer in it, and then
when the surgery was complete, her body would be free and clear of all
cancer cells.
I also suggested that the incision would bleed only as appropriate to cleanse
the wound and that it would heal very quickly without scarring. I suggested
that unless there was a need for medical attention that there would be no
need for any discomfort. I also expressed that her body’s natural ability to
heal would be accelerated and that she would heal so quickly that the nurses
would be amazed by her powerful healing ability.
I repeated all of these suggestions on an audiotape that was about 15 minutes
in length and which included an induction (relaxation).
Cindy had a vacation scheduled before her surgery, so she took her tape
along and listened to it twice a day for a little over two weeks.
She returned from vacation to have her surgery, which was scheduled on a
Thursday afternoon. When she came out of the anaesthesia, she asked her
doctor how the surgery went and when she would be released from the
hospital.
He informed her that he took the lymph node with the cancer and one that
was so close to it that it was touching the cancerous node, and he left all of
the others intact. The surgery didn’t require him to go anywhere near the
muscles that control smiling, and he was pleased with the way the surgery
went.
He then told her that the soonest she would be able to go home would be on
Monday evening, yet on Sunday afternoon, I received a call from Cindy
telling me that she was home—apparently the nurses told her she was “far
too healthy to be in their hospital, and besides, they needed the bed.”
Two weeks later at her follow up visit with the surgeon, he ran some tests
and when the results came in, he declared her to be “free and clear of all
cancer cells”.
What I feel is especially wonderful about this story is that Cindy was my
very first client.
She was extremely receptive to hypnosis because she had used it 25 years
earlier to stop smoking with great success. She also was very motivated to
assist in her healing process and therefore had great results.
I look back at this session with such great gratitude to Cindy for giving me a
chance to work with her when I was a virtual novice. The results that she
achieved from doing this work were so dramatic that I knew I had found my
niche—not only a career field, but within the field itself.
A good portion of the hypnotherapy I do is for pre and post surgery, as well
as the alleviation of side affects of vigorous medical treatments such as
radiation and chemotherapy, pain management, and enhancing the childbirth
experience. All of this came out of the work I did with Cindy.
In the next case study, I’ll illustrate the success of hypnotherapy in
alleviating the side effects of radiation therapy when Cindy went through a
30-day course of treatment later in 1999.
A Case of Toxic Psychology
by
Bruce K. Stampley, MD(am), PhD, CHT
“Linda” came to see me the first time in December of 1999, referred by a
massage therapist.
In the initial interview, it became patently obvious that Linda was in serious
trouble and needed real help. Under most circumstances I would have
referred her to a state-licensed psychologist. But she was already under the
care of three medical professionals and she was not getting better. With
some trepidation, I agreed to work with her to uncover the underlying reason
or reasons for her problems.
The upside of this situation was that Linda, a very intelligent and willing
student, wanted to get better. She was a medical professional herself, steeped
in traditional allopathic philosophy and practice.
When I suggested the use of hypnosis to have a look at her “stuff”, she was
skeptical but desperate to get well. I pointed out to her that traditional
medicine was not producing the desired results, so maybe the real reasons
for her difficulties were being overlooked.
From this point, I shall let Linda tell her own story.
“Since the most worthwhile experiences that we have in life are those
that we can share and teach, I would like to tell you how I got a second
chance at living.
10 yrs ago I was hospitalized for a suicide attempt. I was diagnosed with
major depressive disorder and alcoholism and within a year it became
bipolar.
More labels were tagged on throughout the last few years like
‘borderline personality’ and ‘PTSD’.
I had been taking multiple medications over the past 10 yrs and the
numbers kept growing. Doctors would prescribe one medication for the
symptom and two more for the side effects.
Eventually the count was up to 140 pills per week. Sleep was always
chemically induced. I had chronic diarrhoea for 7 years and I was
having difficulty holding anything in my stomach.
I was sick, missing a lot of work, and becoming more and more
depressed. Despite conventional psychotherapy, I just couldn't imagine
going on much longer feeling like this.
I was told about a hypnotist by a friend. I was a little curious but no
matter how "hoaky" I thought this might be, I was getting desperate.
In January of 2000 I went to see Dr. Bruce Stampley. Skeptical as I
always am, I was very impressed with his ability to make me relax early
on.
I was obviously over-medicated but I could not get any of my own
doctors to consider letting me detox without hospitalization.
Dr Bruce believed he could detox me in two weeks without
hospitalization and was willing to see me through the battle.
With the use of some of his herbal medications and intense daily
hypnosis, I am proud to say I am drug free and feeling better about
myself than I ever have.
We worked out some difficult childhood problems that I had deeply
buried in my mind and had all but forgotten. I can now handle these
memories and get on with my life as I never thought possible.
For the first time I actually feel that I am in charge of my own life. What
freedom that has given me. Dr Bruce Stampley has given me the
greatest gift of all .... he has given me a new life and I will be eternally
grateful.
I hope that my story will touch someone else in trouble and give them
hope that they too may be set free from their own demons. Hypnosis and
alternative therapy have proved to be priceless for me.”
It now the Spring of 2003 and Linda is still not taking any medications and
has lost 40 pounds. She has changed from a dejected, defeated individual
into an outgoing, attractive and happy young woman.
She is no longer a client, but I have kept close track of her. Needless to say, I
am professionally very pleased that we were able to resolve some of her
problems.
The two things that helped her make this wonderful change were the belief
that she could get well and the tremendous power of the mind/body
connection to overcome huge obstacles through understanding and using that
power to effect changes even at the cellular level.
Bruce K. Stampley, MD(am), PhD, CHT
www.online-hypnotherapist.com
Past-Life Regression
Barrie Anson
Some years ago I was visited by a man in his early 30's, who asked if I could
help him to relax and to overcome his occasional stammer.
He was working as a builder at the time. He had an interest in spiritual
matters and asked if I would be willing to regress him to a past life.
Over a period of 3 months he visited me 3 times and in each of these visits
he was able to respond well to hypnotherapy and each time managed to give
a good description of what we assumed to be a past life experience.
In the third session, he described a past life as a carpenter, living in northern
Italy. In that life he was aged about 31, married to a very pretty wife, with
one daughter aged about 4.
He described working on an Abbey when he fell off the wooden scaffolding
and broke his legs very badly. He was able to read the date 1687 on that
building.
Following the accident, his legs were quite crippled, but he managed to get
about with the use of a crude sort of 'invalid carriage' and with the use of
splints made of wood and leather. He was still able to make a living carving
wood and so on and the Abbey authorities made sure that he had adequate
work.
That particular life ended some years later at about age 38 or 39 when he
suffered, along with many other people, from fever, boils and so on. He
believed it was plague that infected many others at that time.
Some days after the third session, my client telephoned to say
that his business partner in their building business had remarked, quite
spontaneously, that he had noticed my client walking around high parts of
the construction, on scaffolding and so on, with complete confidence.
Previously he had been noticeably nervous when moving around on top of
building constructions. The business partner had no knowledge of his
hypnotic sessions or regression interludes.
It would seem that, real or imagined, reviewing the session illustrating his
accident and injury and subsequent ability to make a living in a past life, had
a powerful effect on his present life.
Barrie Anson
http://www.alternativehealing.co.uk
Child’s Play: Overeating
Maurice Kouguell, Ph.D., BCETS.
Client's Name: “Tina”
Introduction:
Tina came to see me at the recommendation of a colleague who wanted her
regressed to determine the origin of her overeating.
At the first session, Tina was apprehensive about having her questions
answered fully, completely, totally. Also it was determined at that point, that
her memory was extremely poor. She had hardly any recollection of
childhood memories. She had hardly any memories of past friendships or
events.
At this time, she is a young woman in her mid-twenties, about 80 pounds
overweight. She frequently told me during this first session that my recliner
chair reminded her of her dentist's chair. This brought forth all kinds of fears
connected with that.
She was hypnotized during the first session using the progressive relaxation
method. It was felt that, for her, a highly structured method would be best. It
was interesting to note that she had hardly any visual or auditory abilities in
her imagination.
I decided to use memories connected to tastes and smells since she was so
overweight and I felt that food would be an important thing to her and that
she might thus have a clearer association.
Tina was taken very deeply at her first hypnotic session and post-hypnotic
suggestion was given to her that every day her memory would improve ...
every day she would be able to remember events that had happened in her
immediate past, as well as in her childhood.
She was also given the suggestion that when she returned for her next
session, she would be able to remember clearly incidents that had happened
in her childhood. Tina was also asked to bring to her next session her baby
pictures or a family album.
The following passage is a verbatim excerpt from the second session. The
transcript begins after the first few minutes of talking to Tina and the
transcript ends shortly after the connection is made between a precipitating
experience and her overweight condition
Session Transcript
Tina: I must have been 6 or 7 at the wedding...
MK: Ok, that one you remember..., that came back to you rather well. So
you can remember..., well, today you remember better because at the last
session I left you with the suggestion that you will remember even better.
Now... the wall that you built around yourself...started at about what age?
Because there is a discrepancy between that...
Tina: A year and a half before...
MK: In your baby pictures you were a little bit pudgy... as babies are
especially in the Middle East ... you know a child who is loved...I know
because this is part of my culture also..., a child who is loved is very well
fed, so this was not a wall, this was somebody... your mother...who loved
you... most likely and she made sure that you were very well fed so that
everyone would think what a good person she is.
Tina: When I was younger I used to be in boarding school ...so my mother
said she used to feel guilty because I used to cry all the time and I did not
want to come out and she used to buy me a lot of things I liked. I liked
concentrated milk a lot...the one you could eat with a spoon so she used to
buy that a lot. As far as the hot peppers ... it was just a form of punishment ...
but that has nothing to do with my weight... If I did something bad she used
to put hot peppers in my mouth.
MK: That was over there...
Tina: Yes...
MK: ..Which by the way is not uncommon. You know, I am glad that both
of us grew up in the same part of the world. It was either mustard or soap,
mustard was used quite often ... and the evaporated milk. That was nice,
luscious ... that was also something that for some reason when you poured it
it was like molasses ... OK, now your pictures don't show you as being
overweight, at least no more than most well-loved children. I don't see that
in your photographs, unless I'm wrong. Do you see yourself as being fat ...
overweight in your pictures?
Tina: Well ... I say, let's say ... from 6 years old on ... I remember other
children making fun of me.
MK: So until 6 years of age ...
Tina: I would say ... I don't remember anyone making fun of me before that.
I don't remember ever being told or having any problems with my mother
before then.
MK: Until you were six. You know what is happening today?
Tina: (laughing) I don't know ...
MK: You have some past memories ... you remembered nothing last session
... it came back. You know what is happening also, whatever may have
frightened you or triggered off in you the need to be isolated through extra
weight ... may be at this point in your life so far away that you can handle it.
So I think you can talk about it. So shall we go into hypnosis? Do you feel
comfortable today? It does not remind you of a dentist's chair today? You're
beginning to like it ...?
OK, today we'll do it slightly differently. A slightly different method. I will
accelerate your hypnosis and also you will go into a deeper trance.
Tina: Deeper?
MK: Deeper. But you know that is a controllable thing and as you know I
am watching you all the time and if there are signs that you are
uncomfortable, I will go easy.
There is no rush.
Tina: I have nothing to say about what has been going on so far, but I still
feel that somehow I am not being hypnotized and that I am able to think
while you are talking to me. Are you supposed to think? Can you think?
MK: Darn right. You better think. Absolutely.
Tina: You know there are certain things that come to you automatically. But
you know like the last time when I had to go to the ladies room, I would
think like when you were talking to me that “I have to go.”
MK: Do you have to go now?
Tina: No. No. (laughter) So I am just wondering ...
MK: What you are experiencing is shared with many people who feel that
hypnosis is something miraculous — so magical — it's not. You know you
have had all the signs ... tingling in your arms or legs — the distortion of
time element — these are all signs that you are coming here for ... you are
coming here for us to go back in time because you are hypnotized but your
concept of being hypnotized is different to what actually is.
You make yourself feel that it is not working. But it is working. Your
memories of past events ... the first time here you actually had no
recollection of anything ... do you remember the first time … you
remembered that you came to the States at a certain age ... that was all you
could remember.
OK, you also remembered a bit better the two girls at one of your parties —
the 16th birthday party do you remember? OK, today we are going back to
the age of 6. We are going to do that. That was your second grade. Before
we start, do you remember your second grade at all? Anything about it?
Tina: I remember where I was ...
MK: Let me help you. Your best memory is not your visual memory ...
we've determined that. You can experience how it felt sitting at a desk ... the
climate, the weather, the smells around you, the taste of some foods in class
or at home and then we'll bring it back to the visual memory. Do you follow
me? So you are about 7 or 8 ...
Tina: 6 ... I went to the first grade at 5.
MK: OK, so this is the year that we are interested in, second grade. Think of
the school, remember how it felt in school.
Were you comfortable going to class? Relaxed? Do you remember the
entrance to the school building?
Tina: Yeah ...
MK: OK where's your classroom. To the left ... straight-ahead is there a
bell?
Tina: To the right ...
MK: Good for you ... that's great ... is there some kind of a bell or whistle to
get you kids to line up?
Tina: A bell ...
MK: What kind of bell is that? What does it sound like?
Tina: It's not an electrical bell ... not like that ... it's ...
MK: Like a cow bell ...?
Tina: That's it, yeah.
MK: You remember how it sounded ... more or less but you remember the
bell.
Do you remember lining up to go to class ... or you just went in like that?
Tina: We used to ... be outside and we prayed first ... it was a Catholic
convent school.
MK: So you wore a uniform.
Tina: Yeah ...
MK: Describe it.
Tina: I have a photograph ...
MK: No... No... Describe it to me.
Tina: White shirt ... and ... let me see ... a black straight uniform like a
jumper. A tie, a stick pin ...
MK: Some kind of a hat if you went to Catholic school ...
Tina: Yes ... a beret.
MK: O.K.
Tina: White socks, bobby socks.
MK: Did you have some kind of break ... morning or afternoon?
Tina: I think at noon.
MK: What did you eat? What was your favorite snack?
Tina: (laughter)... ooh ... Cheese and olive pie ... like cheese bread and olive
bread actually. Olives stuck in it.
MK: You look good today ... You look relaxed ... you don't look worried.
You see, the suggestions of last week are working ... you seem relaxed ...
you see we don't even have to go into hypnosis ... you remember so much.
Do you remember the first couple of sessions? You remembered nothing.
O.K. Now ... the reason we are going into hypnosis is that things are going
to become very vivid.
You may not even have to go into a deep trance. Things will become much
clearer in your mind. O.K.? So we're going to do something different today.
O.K.?
Tina: O.K.
MK: You are going to start with your eyes open. Do you mind?
Tina: No ... I just hope I can do it.
MK: Of course you'll do it . . . no question about it ... I am going to come
over to you and I would prefer for you to just look at my forehead ... and as
you look your eyes are becoming heavier and heavier. You feel like closing
them ... You are fighting sleep already but keep them open.
I am going to count to three ... keep them open. One... two... two... Keep
them open. They are becoming heavy … so very heavy ... now your head is
becoming so very heavy ... so very heavy ... so very heavy ... that it is
beginning to fall forward ... so heavy ... so very heavy... so very heavy that
you can hardly hold it up. One ... two ... three ... so heavy, so very heavy ...
your head is falling forward and I am now going to bring your head back ...
You're in a deep trance and I am going to place my hand on your forehead
and as I do, you will be totally relaxed. You are totally deep in hypnosis.
You will be in a totally deep comfortable state of hypnosis ... very deep ...
very relaxed ... completely relaxed... so completely at ease. Just very
relaxed.
My voice is very clear ... you hear everything I say to you ... it's crystal clear
… your memory is going to become sharper and sharper … sharper and
sharper ... and we are going to go back in time … to a time when you were
much much younger and we will try to recapture some experiences you have
had.
Now you are much older and whatever happened to you is very far away.
There is nothing that happened then that can scare you now … looking at the
past ... you will remember everything very clearly ... and I will talk to you
and you will be able to answer me because you are hearing everything I say
very clearly ... completely clearly ... although once in a while you might be
fighting sleep ... you will stay awake and alert with your eyes closed so that
you will hear everything that I am saying ... everything ... completely,
everything ... your memory will become sharper... your visual memory will
become so much sharper and after this experience is over you will come out
of it completely relieved and completely relaxed ... feeling so good that
whatever happened is all over ... totally relaxed ... so very comfortable ...
feeling so good ... feeling so at ease ... so completely at ease ...
O.K. I am going to talk to you at this point ... whatever has happened … has
happened a long time ago and as you answer me … just answer me in a
comfortable voice without too much stress because I'd like you to remain
relaxed and calm.
Can you hear me? Good ... very good. You are now beginning to feel
smaller and smaller ... you feel much younger going back in time and now ...
you are in your early teens and you find yourself in another country. Can
you picture that, Tina?
Tina: Yes.
MK: Good. Where are you now? What country are you in?
Tina: Cyprus.
MK: Very nice. O.K., we'll just choose an age. You're now 12 years old.
Getting younger ... You're now 11 years old ... now 10 years old ... Can you
remember anything at the age of 10? O.K. Tell me anything that you can
about the time when you were 10 years old.
Tina: ... school, classrooms ...
MK: It's coming back. You can remember … very good. And now for about
4 years or so ... 4 or 5 years ... friends have been teasing you about your
weight. Do you remember how it felt? How did you feel. Were you angry?
Tina: Nervous.
MK: Could you do anything about it?
Tina: No...
MK: You are getting younger ... and now you are 10 years old. Things are
going by very fast in your mind ... so very fast. Now you are down to 9
years.
O.K. Now you are 8 years old. You have now been putting on weight for 2
years and you seem to remember very vaguely ... you are not sure if it is
your memory or someone else ... that you have been putting that weight
around you to protect yourself from possible emotional hurt ... you
remember that feeling? At the age of 8 already becoming overweight?
Outstanding? Do you remember that? ...
O.K. Now you're 7... now we take you back to the time when you were 6
years of age ... whatever happened Tina happened a long time ago. Very
long ago so no matter what happened when you talk about it ... it can no
longer hurt you ... for it's part of another life ... far away ... it's another
continent ... it's almost like another life ... so it's very safe now to talk about
it, completely safe.
Just give me some clue as to where you are ... you're 6 years old. Just any
place that comes to your mind. Where are you?
Tina: In the yard.
MK: In the yard in the school? O.K. Who else is around you? What's
happening?
Tina: (pause) ... I don't remember. My doll was broken.
MK: You'll hear my voice moving because I am going to sit closer to you ...
I am having a little difficult time hearing you. You'll tell me again ... your
doll did what?
Tina: My doll was broken
MK: Your doll was broken. How did you feel? Did you cry?
Tina: Yes ... the doll could not talk any longer.
MK: How did it break?
Tina: I left it in the rain.
MK: You left it in the rain? Were you scared? You were responsible for the
doll? ...What happened? Were you punished?
Tina: Got another one.
MK: You got another one? You are going to talk about feelings now. For
most children, a doll is a real person ... isn't it.
It's a bit like you being responsible for making that doll a very sick person.
And when a person has a friend who is sick, one needs to have somebody
who understands seeing that you lost a friend to sickness. You must have
found yourself very much alone. What did you do to make you happy?
Tina: I was crying ...
MK: You were crying for a long time? ... a long time ... you sound very
much alone. What did you do later to make you feel better?
Tina: Went to sleep.
MK: How long were you sad. A long time? Sometimes sadness and anger go
together. You were about to say something ... go ahead ...
Tina: I didn't want to stay in school.
MK: How did your parents handle you?
Tina: I didn't want to go to school. They left me there.
MK: They brought you to school and left you there. What did you do?
Tina: Stayed there.
MK: What did the teachers do?
Tina: Tried to be nice to me.
MK: You must have felt terrible on that day. How about the next day? You
went to school?
Tina: I missed...
MK: You missed...
Tina: My mother.
MK: Do you remember what at that time made you feel secure?
Tina: Yes ... I slept with my girlfriend ...
MK: Sometimes when one feels very lonely and rejected one tends to start
eating ... eating a lot ... Did you eat sometimes in the common dining room?
Can you see yourself now ... looking at yourself in the past ... Can you
remember beginning to eat more than most of the other girls in the class?
Tina: I ate more at lunch time ... after school ... at night ... by myself.
MK: Can you hear me ... now looking back from the present time to those
days ... beginning to get comments from your friends and your parents and
relatives about your weight ... can you remember. Can you remember your
reactions towards them ... at that time ... what did you do?
Who loved you more than anyone else?
Tina: I think my mother ...
MK: What did she do about it?
Tina: She used to buy me things. Food.
MK: Let's go back in time again ... the day that your doll broke ... to that day
... it's night time ... now you mentioned that the doll spoke ... do you
remember ... it was a toy doll ...was it one of those dolls that spoke and the
voice came out of its stomach?
Tina: It was a voice box.
MK: It was a voice box. About where?
Tina: Between the shoulders ... you pulled a string.
MK: What did it say?
Tina: "I love you, Mommy."
MK: I love you, Mommy. You know, as a child ... a doll is almost real, you
know that … do you remember that ... like a real child ... and in some ways,
in many ways ... you were her mother ... and she loved you.
You must have felt terrible when you confused the doll with a real child and
felt responsible for such a terrible accident. It was just a doll, wasn't it? Still,
it was more than a doll for you ...
In a few minutes I am going to reawaken you and you are going to feel
completely relaxed and very comfortable — and you will remember
everything that we have talked about. And you will also remember that what
happened was long time ago and then you and I are going to discuss your
feelings, at that time.
We will take all the time we need and when you come out of hypnosis you
will be able to remember to put those memories way back, way back and
you will be able to live with yourself and you will have sympathy and
compassion but you will be very clear about the source of the difficulty ...
and the need you felt in the past for isolation by gaining weight.
So I am going to bring you out of hypnosis very slowly. I am going to count
from 1 to 5. On the count of 5 you will open your eyes, just take your time
and get reoriented. Take all the time you need.
Open your eyes on the count of 5. You will feel marvelous ... completely
rested ... I am now going to deepen your hypnosis by counting down from 5
to 1. On the count of 1 you will be very deep in hypnosis ... I am going to
start counting down ... deeper ... 5 ... deeper ... you are feeling so good ... 4
... deeper ... you are feeling so good … so comfortable ... so relaxed ... way
down ... 3 ... 2 ... and feeling so comfortable and so relaxed ... and 1 ...
feeling so good ... so relaxed.
In a few seconds you will find all your energy back ... and I will now bring
you out of hypnosis very slowly, very gradually ... I am going to count from
1 to 5 and on the count of 5 you will open your eyes, you will feel great ...
and you'll be surprised how good these few moments of total relaxation feel.
1 ... 2 … your legs and arms are heavy but you can feel the circulation
coming back ... 3 ... your whole body is waking up ... you're becoming
clearer and ... 4 ... and 5 … open your eyes very slowly … feeling so good
and so relaxed ... take your time ... you're back in the present ... you're in my
office ... and I'm sitting across from you ... take your time ... we'll talk in a
few seconds, your arms and legs are going to feel lighter as you come out of
hypnosis very gradually ... feels good? Very relaxed...
Dr Maurice Kouguell
http://www.brooksidecenter.com
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Pikat midis frazave jane pushime apo pauza qe hipnotisuesi ben ne menyre qe pavetedija te kete kohe te perpunoje sugjestionet.....gjithashtu eshte nje menyre theksimi i hipnotizuesit ndaj pavetedijes per sugjestionet e rendesishme.......
HypnoBirthing® The Mongan Method : Emma and Gabriel’s
Birth Story
Jean-Claude Zekri CH, HBCE
HypnoBirthing® is a unique method of relaxed, natural childbirth, enhanced
by hypnosis techniques, that allows women to use their natural instincts to
bring about a safer, easier, more comfortable birthing in a way that most
mirrors nature. The following is an account of a classic HypnoBirthing®
experience.
When Emma happily learned of her pregnancy, she found herself in a
dilemma – should she opt for natural yet painful childbirth, or go the
traditional route of a numbing epidural?
Like most women, she dreamed of giving birth naturally – without
anaesthesia. The idea that such a beautiful process could be less than joyful
and gentle seemed baffling and illogical.
Yet, like most women, she had also heard the multitude of birth stories from
friends, neighbours, co-workers and family, and the verdict was woefully
unanimous – labour hurts!
Spooked and terrorized, Emma decided on an epidural. It wasn’t until six
months into her pregnancy, when tuning into a “Dateline NBC” televised
report on natural childbirth through hypnosis, that Emma lit up.
It seemed after all, that labour did not HAVE to hurt. It could be what she
had always hoped and believed it should be – comfortable, dignified, and
drug-free.
On further research Emma found out just what birthing through hypnosis is.
It is called HypnoBirthing®, and promises an easy and serene labour – just
as nature intended. Indeed, those were the magical words. This was just the
kind of experience she was looking for.
But what kind of experience exactly is HypnoBirthing®?
Contrary to what one might think, a labouring mother is NOT hypnotized
into feeling no pain. Rather, it’s a method of natural childbirth based on the
premise that when a woman is free of the fear and tension which cause pain,
the body is then able to do what it was designed to do: labour quietly and
steadily.
Through a series of pre-natal classes and relaxation tapes, it is prepared to
achieve the deep relaxation needed for smoothly functioning birthing
muscles. As the Dateline report had stated, “it is not something that is done
TO you, but something you learn and get better at with practice”.
What Emma learned was how, in fact, the labouring uterus functions.
The myth and fear of a painful labour were dispelled and she emerged with a
new understanding of what birthing is truly about.
She was also taught how to breathe through her ‘surges’ (The HB term for
contractions), natural methods for triggering late or stalled labour, optimal
birthing positions and, through listening religiously to her relaxation tape,
learned to achieve instant relaxation.
When the big day arrived Emma had no clue that her labour had begun. She
felt fine and busied herself with her normal activities. Every so often she
would feel a slight ‘tightening’ of the uterus but thought nothing of it.
Toward mid-afternoon, Emma began to notice that her tightening sensations
seemed to be coming on rather regularly. Her husband Gabriel decided to
time them ‘just in case’ and found that they came at 3 minute intervals.
Gabriel called the hospital.
Since Emma experienced no pain, the nurse responded that it didn’t sound
like ‘real’ labour, but to come on in anyway. Once there, she inquired again
if Emma was in any pain. Emma was not, and the nurse left the room
assuring our mother-to-be that pain would most definitely happen, and to let
her know when it did.
When three hours later the much-awaited pain had not set in, a trio of nurses
gathered round to discuss the situation. Emma continued to focus on
relaxing and peacefully breathing through her surges, ignoring their loud
references to the “p” word. She felt happy and confident.
Emma asked not to be examined while she focused. Not understanding what
they were dealing with, the nurses backed off as though in the presence of a
rare animal.
Amused, Gabriel explained that his wife was having a calm labour with the
aid of hypnosis. Looking helpless, the women left the room.
When much time had passed and Emma’s labour still had not progressed, the
doctor was called in, told about the no pain situation and surges still at 3
minutes apart.
It was decided to rupture Emma’s membrane, and on terminating the
procedure, the well-meaning doctor bellowed out a resounding and
triumphant, “NOW SHE’LL FEEL THE PAIN!”.
On hearing this, in spite of herself, doubt set in and Emma panicked. Could
it be that she hadn’t yet reached the point when it really hurt? To make
things worse, she suddenly heard screams from another labouring mother
down the hall. It sounded tortured to the point that Emma’s heart rate flew
up.
Gabriel reminded her of all she had learned, calming her down and giving
suggestions for deep relaxation. As Emma tuned out and went inward,
gratefully feeling each new surge tightening and pulling gently, she began to
trust again that all was well.
Labour progressed now at a normal and steady rate. Surges were strong and
sure, and the nurses drifted in and out, beaming at their special patient,
accustomed now to the fact that yes, Emma was in ‘real’ labour and no,
there was no pain.
By 7:48 p.m. Emma began to shiver uncontrollably and felt a strong pressure
in her pelvic area. “Ah!” said the nurse, tossing a hot blanket around her,
“We’re almost there!”
‘Almost there’ was a signal to Emma to take on a squatting position during
surges, as she had learned that when upright, the labouring body is in
harmony with the pull of gravity and the coccyx swivels to widen the pelvis.
Surges continued to be smooth and comfortable.
By 8:28 pm. she felt a pressing need to push. She continued to breathe her
baby down, and finally, at 9:07p.m., roughly one-half-hour later on a balmy
June evening, Michael Jonathan was quietly born.
On thinking back, Emma is thankful and proud of the manner in which she
gave birth.
The nurses went back to their routine, happy for Emma’s easy labour, and
despite their disbelief, wondering if perhaps hypnosis may have had
something to do with it.
Jean-Claude Zekri CH, HBCE.
http://www.hypnoaide.com
Anxiety Attacked: A Therapist Explores the Domino Effect
by Maurice Kouguell, Ph.D., BCETS.
Question: Is it possible to cure more than one phobia at a time?
M.K: I prefer not to “overload” the client. However, in the following case I
succeeded in “curing” two phobias at one time.
Question: What do you mean by curing?
M.K: I think that after one symptom-free year that the case can be
considered closed.
INTRODUCTION
This 55-year-old woman entered my office with a pronounced limp, yet I
had observed her coming up the walk to my office limp-free. Briefly, as a
child the only time she could get her mother's attention was to make herself
sick enough to require hospitalization.
PANIC ATTACKS
The following is a partial transcript of the second session with patient C. The
third session was a report by C of her panic-free experience with M.R.I.
procedures at the hospital (scanning).
The initial session revealed that this 55 year old woman has lived since
childhood in a constant state of fear and free-floating anxiety. In her
formative years, her mother acknowledged her presence and existence only
when she pretended to be sick or really was sick.
Please note how this session brought her to master two phobias:
claustrophobia and fear of water. The follow-up session indicated that she
overcame both of these; however, she has retained her need to let everyone
know how "unfortunate and sick she is."
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MK: Now, what I'm going to do, I'm going to take you from your house to
wherever you're going, to the hospital ... to the lab.
C: Hospital.
MK: To the hospital. Play my stress reduction tape once a day at least,
before Wednesday, at least once a day. The purpose is for you to get into
that complete environment. Being in your comfortable chair at home.
If you can see yourself doing the whole experience, you are going to be fine.
I have a patient of mine who was so prepared she went through the tunnel
(scanner) completely and when she finished, she remembered what I told her
and what I told her was "Isn't it too bad it's over, it was such a nice
experience to just relax?"
This was her statement, "I was sorry it was over. It was so nice and relaxing.
I didn't have to do anything."
C: I have to think of pleasant things. What they're doing to me doesn't bother
me -- it's not hurting me -- it's just the fear I have of not being able to
breathe.
MK: What I’ll do for you ... You'll breathe okay ...
C: ... My nostrils too, up in the air.
MK: That's right; as long as you know that there is air -- as long as I can
guarantee that you will have enough air. Can I guarantee you that you will
have enough air?
C: I don't know, we'll see.
MK: I think I can guarantee that. I can call the hospital and ask them to
guarantee there is enough air.
C: I want me to feel the air, I know that if I feel the air...
MK: Before you start, ask the technician, who is going to be hovering
around you anyway, ask him not to have garlic or onion and to blow on your
face once in a while so that you know you have enough air.
C: My face will already be in ... my face is underneath the machinery, the
rest of my body is out.
MK: So if you smell onion or garlic, you'll know someone is checking on
you. Okay. So make yourself comfortable. You can hear me well enough?
C: Yes.
MK: Okay. You can hear me, so maybe your hearing is improving.
C: No, maybe I have my hearing aid turned up a little higher.
MK: You can see me too.
C: Yes.
MK: Now that you can see me too, you can take one breath and close your
eyes because you know I'm here. And now, I'm going to relax you first.
Then I'm going to take you through your day, Wednesday.
C: Could you sit here? Because when I close my eyes, I lose some sense of
the hearing.
MK: You hear better with your eyes open. That makes sense, I cannot hear
with my glasses on.
C: When I close my eyes, I'm more relaxed. The tendency is for my mind to
drift off and then I don't hear the voice.
MK: Now I'm going to ask you to take a comfortable breath and let go and
close your eyes and now, with each breath you take, relax and be
comfortable, feel the rising and falling of your back, and as you do so, just
let yourself go. Bring your attention to your eyelids.
Begin to feel the heaviness in your eyelids and let this feeling of heaviness
be in your eyelids and let this feeling of heaviness go down to your cheeks,
your chin, all the way down to your legs, to your shoulders, your arms, your
fore-arms, all the way down to the very tip of your toes. Allow yourself to
feel relaxation and happiness.
And at this point, you are just beginning to relax and with your permission,
what I'd like to do today is to take you to a point, starting one hour or so
before your appointment at the hospital for the test, getting you ready to
leave your house, on the way to the hospital, and to the waiting room, on the
way to your test.
Now, that morning, at the suggestion of your physician as you have
mentioned before we started, he recommended that you may want to take
some tranquilizers.
As long as you take the tranquilizer, it will begin working. Follow his
instruction and take the tranquilizer. The tranquilizer has, at this point, two
very important factors. One, physiologically it will work on your system, it
will work on your brain, it will relax you. And two, since you know it will
work, it will work. So take your tranquilizer and also a good hour or so
before you leave your house, begin to work and to do some relaxation
exercises.
You may wish to just lie down and give yourself five to ten minutes. Close
your eyes after you have taken three to four breaths. And begin to count
backwards from fifty to one. 49, 48, 47, 46, 45, going all the way down,
when you are down to 1, you will count up to 5, and at the count of 5, you
will open your eyes and you feel relaxed and calm. Feeling real good. So
this already will predispose you to feeling calm.
Your mind will direct you to feeling calm and relaxed. So now, you have
about an hour or so left before you leave the house. You have done the
relaxation exercises. You proceed with any arrangements you need to do.
And again, this time you will sit in a chair in the waiting room. You will sit
in that room and you simply breathe in and out. With each breath you will
say to yourself, calm, relaxed. Calm and relaxed. You will enjoy doing this
as long as you like. This will already pre-condition you to do the same thing
when you are in the waiting room. Thus, your mind will already be
programmed for you to feel calm and relaxed as you are in the waiting room.
Now, I'm going to relax you and take you deeper and afterwards I'm going to
take you deeper into hypnosis and we'll deal specifically with your
experience during the scan.
Again, take a deep breath and let go. Another breath, inhale and let go. And
as you do so program yourself, give yourself permission to go into hypnosis
either by counting backwards or by simply saying to yourself, calm and
relaxed. Calm and relaxed. Allowing yourself to go deeper and deeper.
You may wish at this point to picture your nose as allowing your breathing
to be smooth and relaxed, smooth and relaxed. And knowing that you are in
complete control. Completely relaxed.
And now, with your eyes closed, imagine a warm summer day and that you
are just floating around in a rubber raft, perfectly safe, perfectly comfortable.
You are pretty close to the shore. Just picture yourself resting there in the
soft, rubber raft with the water gently rolling you back and forth, back and
forth as you continue to enjoy the sun and the ocean coolness.
It is so calm and so peaceful out there, with the sound of the waves, all you
want to do is to just be there breathing, calm, into a deep calm.
Picture the scene as I described it, while I count slowly from one to ten. By
the time I get to the count of ten, you will be resting comfortably in a deep,
deep, sound sleep.
One. You can feel yourself relaxing, relaxing so very deeply as you continue
floating on and on, the water gently rocking you.
Two. You feel so relaxed. As you continue to listen to my voice.
Three. Relaxing more and more deeply. Really feeling relaxation, relaxing
deeper and deeper as you just drift.
Four. You feel relaxed and stronger and stronger.
Five. Every word I say is putting you into a deep, sound sleep as I continue
to count. Allow yourself to drift faster and faster into a deep sound sleep,
relax.
Six. Just listen to the sound of my voice and by the time we get to ten, you
will be resting comfortably in a deep sound sleep.
Seven. You are drifting faster and faster and you are comfortable.
Eight. Every word that I utter is putting you faster and faster into a deep,
deep sound relaxing sleep.
Nine. Into a deep, deep sound sleep, deep, sound sleep.
Ten. Very deeply drifting into a deep, sound sleep.
Continue to drift deeper with each passing second ... drifting deeper and
deeper down ... drifting and drifting.
And now, you are now transporting yourself in your mind's eye to the
waiting room. You are sitting in the waiting room; you are given some
papers to fill out. To save time you will go into relaxation.
You have several methods. You will go into relaxation. You will go into
relaxation as you are waiting in the waiting room. You will continue your
deep breathing as you go ... one ... two ... until the test will begin.
And as you are made comfortable by the technician, you will begin to go
into hypnosis by taking four deep breaths and the fifth one which you will
hold for just a few seconds, two or three seconds and you will start counting
backwards once again, very slowly.
Allowing yourself to go to sleep, and in the process of going to sleep, your
mind and your memory will find a place which will make you so happy,
make you so happy ...
Transport yourself to the place with colors and shapes and sounds and
smells, and taste the feeling, transport yourself to a place where you are
completely tuned in, mentally tuned in, and begin to feel the time, time,
making little sense. Minutes will just drift away. Seconds melt, time just
drifts away. You'll get so involved with yourself that you feel only calmness
and relaxation. Allow yourself to just let go of yourself ... completely
relaxed.
You will remember some of your favorite sessions that you've had here.
Allow yourself to just be calm and relaxed, let go and relax. And should you
wish, sleep. Sleep. Sleep.
Each moment that goes by, feel relaxed. Sleep. Sleep. Sleep.
Now you are comfortable in the hospital. You will feel that time has gone
by, feel relaxed. Sleep. Sleep. Sleep. Now you are comfortable in the
hospital. You will feel that time has gone by so fast that you won't believe
the test is over. You will feel proud of yourself that you have accomplished
this experience. You will feel good and this test will show you once again
that you have indeed allowed yourself to take charge of your life. You have
allowed yourself to take charge of yourself.
Now, I'm going to count. On the count of five you will reopen your eyes
feeling totally conscious and aware of your presence, feeling absolutely
wonderfully relaxed and so good. One. Two, beginning to wake up. Three,
letting go and waking up. Four, feeling so good and so relaxed and five,
feeling so good and so relaxed.
C: It took me back to one of my other fears. I can't believe it.
MK: Floating on the raft?
C: Yes.
MK: And you handled it.
C: ... myself in the water: I'm petrified of it. I tried to overcome it a few
years ago and I did temporarily and still when I see myself in the water I'm
either drowning or under the water ... and again I can't breathe.
The whole thing ... and I found myself in all places, I've been to Hawaii, but,
I had myself between going back to Hawaii and the commercial I see on TV
with this guy on a raft and all of a sudden these girls come to him ... to rinse
his mouth or something and I saw these girls with their Hawaiian costumes
and I'm running out of the water instead of in ...
I'm sitting in the raft, but for some reason the raft was not on top of the
water, it was below the water and the water was up to here, which normally I
would be going out of my mind. And the water felt cool and I felt the
breezes, trying to get the breezes to go on my face, into my nose, and
somehow I managed to get out of the water, I don't know where the raft went
to, but I was coming out of the water.
Also, you know I'm petrified of the water and when you started with the raft,
I kept thinking I'm going into my other problem area, between the heights
and the water you got me coming and going. But I managed to not let it
conquer me, I was slightly apprehensive in the beginning, I said to myself,
well, I’ll see how long I can stay here.
MK: You know that I'm aware that you are scared on the water. I know that.
C: I had mentioned that.
MK: I am also aware you are scared of that machine.
C: Yes.
MK: What do you think I accomplished with you? I put you through an
experience about a week ago going up in air you enjoyed that for a while,
right?
C: Normally I would feel an enclosed feeling, because whenever I'm up in
the air I see high mountains around me, and I'm in the valley and I'm going
to plummet but, going up in the balloon I was up in the air before you got
me there and I also felt these breezes on me.
MK: And today I put you in the water which was your other phobia.
C: Yes. Definitely.
MK: I never said that I wasn't tricky but you survived and you enjoyed it.
C: I was fairly calm about it. Because of knowing how my emotion can be
aroused by this fear of being in the water, drowning, learning how to swim,
which I never really did. I tried it about six years ago.. It was the day I
supposedly conquered my fear of being in the water.
MK: So we did it?
C: We did it, yes.
MK: Two fears without you even knowing it.
C: How about that.
MK: Behind your back.
C: Yes. Sneaky, sneaky.
MK: Some of us have no ethics. Right?
C: Right.
***
[Please note how this session brought her to surmount two phobias:
claustrophobia and fear of water. The follow-up session indicated that she
overcame both of these.]
Maurice Kouguell, PhD.
http://www.brooksidecenter.com
Teme shume interesante...
I lexova mesazhet me nje kurjozitet te madhe...
sinqerisht faleminderit Qokle e Aljohin...
Doja thjeshte te beja nje pyetje.
Kush eshte mendimi juaj.... A duhet ti japim nje rendesi te madhe studimit te hipnozes, ekperimenteve dhe zhvillimit te kesaj shkence parapsykologjike...?
pershendetje
Me sa di une parapsikologjia ende nuk eshte pranuar si shkence (mbase ne keto vitet e fundit eshte bere ndonje ndryshim). Gjithesesi hipnoza nuk ka te beje me parapsikologjine. Eshte nje fenomen teresisht psikologjik, fiziologjik edhe mjekesor. Ka njerez qe mendojne se gjate hipnozes mund te verehen fenomene ( te papranuara shkencerisht ) parapsikologjike, por hipnoza si fenomen ne vetvete nuk eshte nje i tille parapsikologjik.
Ndersa per pjesen tjeter te pyetjes jam i mendimit se duhet te gjithe te investojme ne nje mjet kaq te fuqishem dhe qe ka lidhje me kaq shume fusha. Dhe mund te investojme si bashkarisht si shoqeri per zhvillimin e saj, po ashtu individualisht. Me kete dua te them qe cdo njeri mund te perfitoje shume nga hipnoza edhe ne menyre individuale, ne kushtet e zhvillimit te tanishem te hipnozes. Dhe kete doja te theksoja ne kundershtim me bindjet e shumices, se nuk eshte aq shume mungesa e zhvillimit ne kete fushe se sa eshte kultura jone apo mentaliteti yne i kufizuar, te cilat na largojne nga praktikimi i kesaj metode, ato qe na pengojne me te vertete nga perfitimi nepermjet hipnozes.
The Case of Quivering Frank
by
Bruce K. Stampley, MD(am),PhD,CH
Frank was referred to me by his physician after said Doc ran out of ideas. Frank
was diagnosed with “Parkinson’s –like symptoms”. That translated to “I don’t
know what else to do for this man”.
Frank presented as an average looking, well-kept man of 60. The exception to
this average look was a very pronounced shaking of his right arm. He came to
my office with his wife, who asked if she could sit in on the initial interview. I
agreed, although this is against my normal practice to allow anyone to sit in on
an intake session.
The doctor who had referred Frank to me had provided me with a complete
report of Frank’s recent medical history and all the tests that had been run in an
effort to determine the cause of Frank’s palsy.
There was no physical evidence to support the idea of Parkinson’s.
As we proceeded with the initial intake interview, Frank’s wife frequently
interrupted his answers to my questions to interject her own answer or correct
his.
It turned out that Frank was a writer who was just about to have a book
published, that he had had some serious business setbacks over the last two
years and was only just beginning to see some relief from the financial plight he
had gotten into.
Deeper questioning revealed that the shaking had started about two years ago
and had progressed to the point where Frank could not sit at his computer to
work.
When I asked Frank about his views on hypnosis, his wife answered that “they”
did not really believe in hypnosis but had come because the Doctor had
recommended that they do so.
When I directly asked Frank, he told me that he had done some reading on the
subject and was at least open to the idea.
Based on that weak answer, I suggested that he go home and decide if this was
really the modality of alternative health care that he wanted to pursue.
Frank and his wife left, and I supposed that “they” would not be back.
About ten days later Frank called and asked for an appointment. I agreed to see
Frank but told him that no one else would be permitted in the session. We could
tape it for his reference if he desired, but no one else was to be in the room.
Frank showed up for his appointment with wife in tow, shaking even worse
than he had been the first time I saw him. His wife was not happy that I would
not allow her to observe the session.
Frank proved to be a very good subject. He was a very intelligent, quick-witted
person, and understood immediately my instructions and explanation of what
hypnosis is and what it can allow one’s mind to do.
In my practice, I rarely use the word hypnosis, preferring the words altered state
or relaxed state.
I do this because of the public conception of hypnosis as mind control by an
outside source. I go to great pains to explain to my patients that I am simply
there to guide them to where they need to go in order to produce a healing
effect.
Even though he was shaking so hard that he literally had to hold his right arm
down, Frank responded well to suggestion and went into somnambulism easily.
As he reached that relaxed state, I was amazed to see the palsy stop altogether. I
asked Frank to give me a report and he replied that where he was he didn’t have
to shake.
When asked why that was, Frank replied that he didn’t have to shake because
he was in a place where he wasn’t mad.
I brought Frank back to semi-awareness to confirm what I had just heard. As he
came back, the tremors came back, although they seemed less pronounced.
Satisfied that I was not having auditory hallucinations, I led Frank back into the
trance state. As he went deeper into trance the palsy diminished to the point that
I could not visibly discern any unusual tremors in his right arm.
Using ideomotor signalling, I asked Frank to ask his higher mind if there was a
need to have these tremors. When the right index or “yes” finger moved in the
positive manner, I asked Frank to ask his higher mind if it was ok to
communicate directly with it by verbal means and would it be willing to
respond to me in the same manner.
Frank’s other self agreed to this procedure immediately, so I pressed on, asking
what the purpose of the tremor was.
Frank (or his “other self”) said that the tremor was an acceptable way to express
his anger. When I asked further what he was angry about, he said that he was
very angry with his father.
Frank had grown up in a highly structured Jewish family whose father was very
controlling and administered physical punishment for small infractions of “the
rules”.
Frank spent his childhood angry with this father and when the old man died
suddenly at the age of fifty-two, Frank’s twenty-third year, he had not
confronted his father with his feelings. He had been carrying this unresolved
anger with him for almost forty years.
Based on that information, I did a Gestalt session with Frank and asked him to
forgive and then say goodbye to his father. At the end of the session Frank was
sweating profusely and tearful but appeared to be relieved.
Upon leading him back to a full awareness, Frank said that he felt as though a
huge weight had been lifted from him.
I noted that at the end of the session, Frank had no visible tremor, but I
deliberately made no comment.
I walked Frank to the front office and stood by making a bit of small talk while
Frank’s wife paid the fee. When I suggested to Frank that probably only one or
two sessions would clear this matter, his wife interjected that “they” couldn’t
afford much of this foolishness.
I said goodbye and watched as they walked to their car, the wife talking
constantly as they crossed the parking lot. I observed that Frank
had a noticeable tremor as her reached for the car door.
At the next session, Frank again had a tremor although it did not seem as
violent as at the first session. Again, he responded well to the induction and
went into trance easily.
I immediately asked Frank’s “other self” to tell me why he was shaking again.
Was there some process of illness in the body that was the cause? Frank again
told me that anger was the cause of the tremors. Questioning led me to believe
that Frank was angry with his wife for being the controlling figure that
represented his father.
I asked Frank if he loved his wife. He said that he did. He hated that she” had to
run everything”.
I took Frank through a scene where his wife was doing all she could to help his
career the best way she knew how. If she was sometimes overbearing, it was in
his interest.
I gave Frank instructions on forgiving and understanding and installed a post
hypnotic suggestion that it would be good for Frank to suggest that he and his
wife seek the help of a marriage counselor.
When Frank returned to his full awareness, he was quite relaxed and there was
no tremor in his right arm.
That was the last time I saw Frank.
Through the doctor that had referred him to me, I learned that Frank no longer
had the Parkinson’s type symptoms and that he and his wife were going to a
marriage counseling group.
My conclusions were that Frank’s unvented rage at his father, which was
transferred to his controlling wife, had been converted to a palsy which was an
acceptable visible manifestation of that anger.
Once the father was forgiven and his other anger able to be expressed in a
comfortable setting, Frank’s Parkinson’s-type disease no longer had a place in
his life.
This is but one example of how hypnosis can help uncover the real causes of
physical problems and help lead to a sensible resolution.
Bruce K. Stampley, MD(am), PhD, CHT
http://www.online-hypnotherapist.com
Citim:
Po citoj ato që tha ENISS
Hipnoza ka qene nje objekt debati e polemikash te shumta. Eshte ca e veshtire ta shpjegosh konkretisht si dukuri por ne pergjithesi mendohet si nje gjendje e ndryshuar e vetedijes.
Keto vitet e fundit specialiste te ndryshem, mjeke, psikiater, psikologe e sugjerojne hipnozen si mjekim. Mjekimi i semundjeve me ane te hipnozes mund te lehtesoje dhimbjet gjate lindjes, te zevendesoje anestezine, te kuroje dhemjet e kokes, te te ndihmoje te lesh duhanin, drogen, te permiresoje procesin e kujteses dhe te studimit....
Nje pyetje e kisha sepse jam e paqarte... A mendoni se Hipnoza ka nje fare lidhje edhe me magjine? Me ka lindur kjo pyetje pasi kam lexuar se efektet e hipnozes arrijne deri ne veprime e qendrime te mbinatyrshme... Nese ka njeri dijeni apo ndonje argument lidhur me kete, te na e shkruaj e me pas kam dhe une dicka per te shtuar...
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Eshte e veshtire t'i ndash ritet paranormale apo magjike nga hipnoza per vete te qenit te hipnozes shume fiziologjike. Perderisa c'do njeri kalon te pakten 2 here ne dite ne nje gjendje hipnoze spontane eshte e veshtire te thuhet ne se nje njeri qe po perqendrohet te kryeje nje rit magjik apo nje dukuri paranormale eshte apo jo ne nje gjendje hipnotike apo transi.
Vete nostradamusi pershkruan nje gjendje te shtyre transi kur flet per parashikimet e tij dhe teknika i ngjan nje rabdomancie (te atyre qe kerkonin uje).
A Good Talent for Hypnosis
Bryan M. Knight, MSW., Ph.D.
http://www.hypnosis.org
When a client possesses a good talent for hypnosis therapy is swift, even
spectacular.
“Gina” is one such person. Any induction worked wonderfully. Soon after
39-year-old Gina became a client I realised that whatever issue she brought
to the office would be quickly resolved such was her amazing talent for
hypnosis.
One of the first times she displayed this ability was when she complained of
a bad pain in her neck and left shoulder. It seems she’d suffered for years
with the neck pain but that day it was particularly paralysing.
A simple induction of slow deep breathing and enjoying her Special Place (a
moonlit beach with white horses galloping beside the ocean) quickly took
Gina into a relaxed state.
To minimise interference from Gina’s conscious mind, I chose ideomotor
signalling. With a finger on her left hand to signal “No” and a finger on her
right hand to signal “Yes”, she responded to my questions.
I cannot recall why no finger was designated “Don’t want to answer, yet.”
Nor, unfortunately, did I record the exact questions I asked.
But the net result was that Gina’s subconscious conveyed the information
that her mother had not been keen on having Gina and that the pain in her
neck was related to her birth.
Most importantly, the subconscious readily agreed to release the neck and
shoulder pain.
Out of hypnosis Gina recounted that she’d always felt her mother didn’t
really want her. It was while pregnant with Gina that her mother discovered
that the father had sexually abused the eldest of five sisters.
The neck pain was gone. (Seven years later it has never returned).
Was the hypnosis episode a metaphor for feeling that all her life her mother
had been a “pain in the neck”? Or did the subconscious actually retain
memories of a difficult birth?
Who knows. But Gina did verify with other family members that one of the
girls was born with the umbilical cord wrapped around her neck. No one was
sure which of the babies this happened to.
Gina’s terrific talent for hypnosis meant she was able to enjoy a variety of
inductions. So, in a subsequent session, I suggested she count backwards
from 100, subtracting 3 each time. Later in the same session, I re-inducted
Gina with a simple countdown from 10.
This time we dealt with her fear of dogs. This arose from an attack on her by
a vicious dog when she was about 7 years old. Her fear was removed after
Gina went back in her imagination to comfort her child self. The promise to
always protect her child self did not come easily, however. Gina said at first
she’d had difficulty believing she would honour the commitment
A month later Gina arrived at my office in a state of “stomach churning
anger”. This focussed on her business partner, with whom she had a
tempestuous relationship. (It was relationship difficulties that brought her to
my office in the first place).
I asked Gina to gaze at a small rock in which “Imagine” had been carved.
Quickly she relaxed into hypnosis. In her imagination she then destroyed a
symbolic image of the anger. And visibly relaxed.
The image was of a kind of iron curtain. Later Gina told me she was well
aware that the image represented “all the men in my life -- ex-husband,
business partner, father, boyfriend . . .”
We sealed this session with positive suggestions about her remaining calm
around the business partner. Also, imagining being in control if there were
future conflicts with “Ben.” Gina chose a trigger word to keep herself calm
during such confrontations.
The effects of this were remarkable -- for a few months.
Although one suggestion did remain permanently -- to Gina’s delight she
became accustomed to speaking up immediately. Previously she had stewed
in silence (when she didn’t erupt in anger). Now she responded calmly right
away with her opinions when, for example, the boyfriend said something
outrageous.
When Gina once again arrived late, tense and angry, I asked her to gaze at a
penlight. Along with a 5 to 1 countdown she quickly relaxed into hypnosis
and soon felt as though she were “floating on a cloud.”
The penlight induction reminded Gina that one of our earliest uses of
hypnosis -- suggestions that she would remain out of hypnosis while driving
-- was still effective. She no longer had a problem with highway lights that
rhythmically flashed by causing her to almost nod off.
Suspicions that Gina might have been sexually abused by her father finally
surfaced. Gina had displayed some of the symptoms of adults who have been
sexually abused as children but she had no conscious abuse memories.
One of her sisters (at 49) asked Gina’s forgiveness for doing something
sexual to her when she was little. Another recounted her first intercourse was
with their brother. Yet another sister recalled their father frequently telling
weird stories of his sexual exploits as a young man.
Gina did remember:
Her father lining up all the daughters and tongue-kissing each in turn.
Vehemently pushing him away from her on one occasion. [Mother
used to “test” her husband by putting him alone with a daughter].
Being too scared to get up at night to go to the toilet in case the father
repeated the time he invited her to watch him urinate.
His court conviction for assaulting Gina’s eldest sister.
Seeing him in a neighbour’s basement with a little girl (activity
unclear).
Once again we used the penlight as an induction. At first she enjoyed the
image of a horse in a field. Then I asked the subconscious to present
something connected with the issue that Gina wanted to look into.
After a little while (and a lot of facial grimacing) Gina said she had no
images but her hands felt huge while her feet felt tiny.
Then, just as I was going to ask her subconscious a question, she began to
cry, leaned forward and said “there’s a pressure on the back of my head,
pushing, pushing . . .” Gina was terrified.
At her request, I gave her suggestions of calmness and self-control.
Out of hypnosis Gina recounted how one day she’d decided to go out in the
middle of winter, evidently without boots or hat. When she returned,
sloshing through the snow, her father lost his temper, yelled and chased her.
Threatened to kill her, she said, ironically because she might catch cold!
This conscious memory continued with her hiding in the bathroom. Father
kicked the door in, grabbed Gina, tore off his belt and beat her. He badly
damaged her back.
But, to Gina’s relief, there was no recollection of sexual abuse.
In subsequent sessions Gina enjoyed her awesome talent for hypnosis to
solidify her career goals, enhance relationships and gain relief from
insomnia.
Bryan M. Knight, MSW, PhD.
Hypnosis Headquarters
http://www.hypnosis.org
Citim:
Po citoj ato që tha Aljohin
Eshte e veshtire t'i ndash ritet paranormale apo magjike nga hipnoza per vete te qenit te hipnozes shume fiziologjike. Perderisa c'do njeri kalon te pakten 2 here ne dite ne nje gjendje hipnoze spontane eshte e veshtire te thuhet ne se nje njeri qe po perqendrohet te kryeje nje rit magjik apo nje dukuri paranormale eshte apo jo ne nje gjendje hipnotike apo transi.
Vete nostradamusi pershkruan nje gjendje te shtyre transi kur flet per parashikimet e tij dhe teknika i ngjan nje rabdomancie (te atyre qe kerkonin uje).
Nje site i ri i organizuar shume bukur per ata qe duan te fillojne dhe/ose te vazhdojne pervojat e reja pozitive mbi njohjen sa me shume te vetes se tyre apo te asaj te te tjereve
Para jush: HIPNOZA ERIKSONIANE
http://ericksonian.info/index.html
Kam lexuar ca gjera gati qesharake ne kete teme te cilat po ti lexoja ne nje liber te shekullit 18-te,19-te ok,por ne shekullin e 21-te?Magji?(hahahaha)Huh,mu duk sikur po lexoja Anton Mesmer.
Nje pyetje kisha une:
Pse 10-15 % e popullsise eshte shume vulnerabel ndaj hipnozes,kurse nje perqindje poaq e larte se ndien fare?
Pse njerezit gjate hipnozes nuk kryejne ASNJEHERE akte vete-asgjesuese?
Per mua hipnoza eshte thjeshte nje kanal komunikimine mes te atij qe "hipnotizohet" si dhe"hipnotizuesit",gjate se ciles "hipnotizuesi" perdor autoritetin e tije per te ifluencuar tjetrin dhe jo ndonje aftesi e jashtezakoneshme qe ai mund te kete.
Nuk mendoni qe nje njeri qe nuk eshte stabil ne ate qe beson,dhe,ne momentin qe perballet me nje figure autoritare ka tendencen te besoje ate qe thote ndryshe do ndihej abnormal?
Ne religjiozet e vjeter te psikologjise madje dhe besohet qe hipnoza mund te rrise afesite e kujteses,gje qe s'eshte absolutisht e vertete.Gjate hipnozes ca njerez kane thjeshte tendencen te guxojne me teper ne dheniet e versioneve te tyre.Kane me teper besim ne vertetesine e asaj qe thone,edhe pse ne te shumten e rasteve mund te jete gabim(per me gjate shih Nogrady,McConkey & Perry...Rasti me i bukur eshte i Geiselman)
Por ka me teper,ka njerez qe besojne qe hipnoza mund te ule dhimbjen...(Heem,pse vazhdon atehere mjekesia te perdor morfine ke ky 15% i popullsise?)
Hipnoza ul RAPORTIMIN e dhimbjes me ane te disasocimit por absolutisht nuk do thote qe trupi nuk jep shenja demtimi,aq me pak qe keto shenja mund te zhduken.(ca eksperimente te bukur ne lidhje me kete jane dhe me"observatoret e fshehur")
U tha gje mesiper per menyrat ne te cilat vendoset nese nje njeri eshte i hipnotizueshem apo jo? Qe nga ketu kuptohet se per cfare behet fjale,pra qe nga baza kuptohet qe e tere loja luhet rreth aftesive sugjestive dhe pak kane te bejne aftesite mbinatyrale te hipnotizuesit.
Mund ta ilustroj shume mire me nje shembull paralel te kamikazeve:
Nr.1 : Beson ne Zot(hipnoze?)? Nese jo...s'hyn ne grupin e "fatlumeve"
Nr.2:Nje brainwash bazuar ne autoritetin e atyre qe i trajnojne(premtime,aspektativa te ndryshme para hipnozes)
Nr.3 Action: nje BUM ose besim qe je jashte vetes gjate hipnozes.
Kemi te bejme dhe ke kamikazet me hipnoze gje?
Hipnoza mund te kthehet ne nje instrument mjaft te vyer ne psychoterapi,tek njerezit shpesh labile,por nuk e di se sa do funksiononte ke njerezit qe s'kane probleme te tilla. Ti e ke provuar ndonjehere?(une s'mundem pasi mesa dukej ne baze te ca testeve nuk jam njeri i "hipnotizueshem".Pse valle?!)
Al J. kuptoj pasionin tend per hipnozen i cili besoj qe ke ty i ka rrenjet ke rritja e prestigjit te pamjes te psikologut etj. por te siguroj qe asnje psikolog qe respektohet s'do merrte as mundimin te lexonte shembuj te tille si ca te mesiperm.
Po me duket sikur ato sitet fetare qe postojne shembuj te njerezve qe kane pare Zotin.Ne momentin qe perzgjedh informacione,kujdesu qe te jene nga burime te besueshem,te bazuar ne eksperimente te vertetuar
P.s. Sic e shikon,ne njerezit e semure nga koka dime VERTETE te jemi te semure kur duam Por dicka qe s'kuptova ishte se cila ishte diagnoza?!
Te mbaj mend akoma ty,para dy viteve,atehere kur kerkoje me kembengulje tek "te ndryshme"te drejtat e tua per te bere te detyruar vendosjen e profesionit ne profil.Dhe me pas kuptova arsyen,me dhimbsej energjia e shpenzuar duke te kthyer pergjigje
Zoterinj !
Hipnoza eshte nje deshtim psikologjik.
Sipas mendimit tim, nje mjek i mire kurre nuk duhet te perdore hipnozen. Po qe se mjeku nuk arrin ta gjeje nepermjet fjaleve apo bisedavese dhe enderrave se ku e ka gozhden pacienti,atehere ky mjek merr rrogen kot.
Hipnoza ne shume raste eshte eshte rruga e deshtimit te mjekut.
Hipnoza ne shume raste ka sjelle vetem demtime e jo suksese.
Me gjithese nuk lexova me vemendje ato qe jane shkruar me lart,perseri persa i perket hipnozes, ajo do te mbetet nje nga format me te dobeta per kurimin e nje pacienti,apo nje forme fallco ne kete kurim.
Hera e pare qe jeni dakort ju te dy?
A mor doja te te ktheja pergjigje por mu kujtua thenia e NS-6 (c'e do e paska hequr tani) dhe...e lashe fare...te uroj me gjithe zemer t'ia kalosh mire.
Qe te jesh dakort ne lidhje me dicka te tille nuk do shume,pasi shumica e njerezve qe jetojne ne shekullin e 21-te efektivisht kuptojne qe i perket te shkuares.
Gje qe konfirmon me teper faktin qe lehni vetem aty ku mendoni qe s'ju lexojne dhe aty ku duhet te hapni gojen rrini si hunj!(shkurt efekti i thashethemeve te grave te fshatit mbas shpine! )
Ja kalofsh mire dhe ti pasi s'me vete te harxhoj as dhe nje shtypje butoni tastiere më teper me njerez qe qendrojne mbas ideve te tilla primitive.
Me fjale te tjera,hipnoza eshte veti negative jo vetem e mjekeve te kesaj fushe ,por,ajo gjendet edhe tek njerzit e tjere duke u shprehur ne formen e manise se persekutimit, te mbi vlersimit te vetes,te nen vleresimit te vetes,te impotences psikike,mos besimit,mbi besimit,etj.etj.etj.
Kesaj i thone hipnoze me sy hapur.
Marrim vetem anen ku essi ka humbur vlerat.
Si pasoje e nje egoizmi te semure apo egocentrizmi,mendohet se ndikimi i saje ne ekuilibrin UN&ES eshte tmerresisht i madh,aq sa i jep shume vlere unit duke e rrezuar plotesisht esin.
Kur kemi zbatimin e kesaj dukurie ne jeten praktike,do te thote se armiku i c'ekuilibrit psikik qe eshte essi ne kete rast,eshte teper i dobet dhe i pa fuqishem per te ndikuar tek opozita e tij qe eshte uni.
Ky c'rregullim sjell pasoja te medha ne tere kompleksin e veprimeve te individit,duke e menduar veten si primar ne cdo fushe,si te rendesishem,si te pa zevendesueshem,si te pa prekshem etj.etj.etj. ky individ jeton ne nje bote ireale,mbret apo mbretereshe e se ciles,eshte teper e natyrshme qe te vendose veten e saj apo te tij. Nuk eshte e habitshme qe ne te shumten e rasteve keta individe gjejne edhe lumturine brenda kesaj bote imagjinare per ne,por,te vertete per ata.
Pra e kisha fjalen qe me termin ''hipnoze'' jo artistikisht,por,edhe prakitikisht,nuk duhet te kuptojme vetem gjendjen e gjumit te stimuluar nga psikologu,por, edhe pergjumjen aktive qe egziston tek keta individe.
Shume e gjere eshte kjo teme,por,nuk po zgjatem,pasi ne nje forum si ky,nuk shkojne per shtat leksionet e gjata.
A mor...mos u merzit...
ej,ho mre marun informacionet per kete teme aaaa?ishte shume interesante dhe me erdhi keq qe e paskan lene pas dore...
Informacione ka sa t'dush por eshte organizimi i keq i punes...edhe i kohes.
merre me nge ti,spo te detyron kush...kur te kesh kohe,hidh nei gjo te re
hopniza nuk eshte fenomen paranormal. Ajo ka si pikenisje disa komponente dhe zhvillohet ne nje fushe ose teren qe eshte ne fakt gjendja e disekujlibruar e subjektit dhe karakteristikat e personalitetit te tij. Sugjestionuesi eshte nje person i afte per te bere te besueshme te subjekti ato forma urdherore qe ne fakt subjekti i beson si te tilla.
Prirje me te madhe per t'u sugjestionuar kane individet me cregullime ankthi ose sic quheshin dikur "neuroza"
Une per vete e them pa frike se nuk ka njeri ne kete palnet qe mund te me "hipnotizoje".
Hipnoza lidhet me friken dhe besimin dhe te gjithe mund te hipnotizohemi nese besojme ne te.Tung
Citim:
Po citoj ato që tha astras
hopniza nuk eshte fenomen paranormal. Ajo ka si pikenisje disa komponente dhe zhvillohet ne nje fushe ose teren qe eshte ne fakt gjendja e disekujlibruar e subjektit dhe karakteristikat e personalitetit te tij. Sugjestionuesi eshte nje person i afte per te bere te besueshme te subjekti ato forma urdherore qe ne fakt subjekti i beson si te tilla.
Prirje me te madhe per t'u sugjestionuar kane individet me cregullime ankthi ose sic quheshin dikur "neuroza"
Une per vete e them pa frike se nuk ka njeri ne kete palnet qe mund te me "hipnotizoje".
Hipnoza lidhet me friken dhe besimin dhe te gjithe mund te hipnotizohemi nese besojme ne te.Tung
Citim:
Po citoj ato që tha iliriusa
Te them te drejten s'e di se sa besoj tek hipnoza, megjithate Astras, perderisa s'e ke provuar nuk mund te thuash me siguri te plote se nuk mundet dikush te te hipnotizoj.
Nqs hipnoza ka lidhje me friken edhe besimin..., edhe te gjithe kane besim tek dikush a tek dicka, edhe frike ndaj dikujt apo dickaje, besoj se edhe ty mund te te 'hipnotizojne'.![]()
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Sa e madhe.
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Po sikur ta vije ne youtube? Atje pranojne deri 100 mb dhe ketu vihet linku direkt sic veme muziken. :p
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