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Re: Are we better alone now a days, is it worth to risk something in your life for love?
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Po citoj ato që tha lorie
For years i have felt a big whole of emtpiness,of a meaningless life. I was in search of something to get filled.
The thing that was missing was love. And i thought being alone was cool ,was the greatest thing in the world,no responsabilities, no strings attached. Like Ravik in Triumph's Arch .He didn't want any relationships because he wanted to be free, "indipendent".Me too, i hate strings.Freedom is very important for me.
After a while ,i got tired, i wanted to feel, i wanted to change my reality.
And now i am learning that man is not made to be alone.He definitely needs a companion. Solitude and privacy is fine, you can have that indipendence even when you are in a relationship. The trick is to learn that art...
What i was afraid and still am is the risk of getting hurt.
But i am risking sth in my life for love :i am being opened to attacks,i am finally letting people know my very vulnerable parts of my character.
Its always better to risk for love, otherwise you can never understand what love is. you can never understand what lies behind its depth, you can never understand yourself either. if you don't get hurt you can't be strong, if you don't suffer you don't know what happiness mean, you don't know the value of things. Don't be affraid of suffering, You will always be stronger nothing lasts. neither the sufferings nor the happiness, the stronger the pain, the greater the beauty of soul.
The only thing you should never risk for love is your future. you should put urself in the first place, your future your career then the feelings. At least i don't do compromises in this point. the price is very high nevertheless I feel my independence and self fulfillment is for the moment much more important than putting it at risk for the sake of love.
let me bring a poem i read in the forum and I like it very much
NGADALE VDES...
Dalngadale vdes ai qe behet skllav i zakonit,
qe perserit to njejtat gjera cdo dite,
qe nuk ndryshon rruge,
qe nuk rrezikon,
qe nuk ndryshon ngjyren e veshjeve,
qe nuk i flet atij qe nuk a njeh.
Dalngadale vdes ai qe nuk permbys tryezen,
qe eshte i pakenaqur nga puna,
qe nuk rrezikon sigurine nga pasiguria per te ndjekur nje enderr,
qe nuk i lejon vetes asnjehere ne jete to thyeje rregullat a vendosura.
Dalngadale vdes ai qe nuk udheton,
qe nuk lexon,
qe nuk degjon muzike,
qe nuk zbulon hijeshi tek vetja a tij.
Dalngadale vdes ai qe shperfill krenarine e tij,
qe nuk i le te tjeret ta ndihmojne,
qe i kalon ditet duke u qare per fatin e tij te keq,
qe ankohet per shiun qe nuk pushon.
Dalngadale vdes ai qe i shmanget projektit para se to filloje,
qe nuk pyet per gjerat qe nuk i di,
dhe qe nuk pergjigjet per gjerat qe di.
E shmangim vdekjen me doza te vogla,
duke kujtuar gjithmone se te jesh gjalle
kerkon nje perpjekje shume me te madhe
se thjeshte fakti qe marrim fryme.
Vetem durimi i paepur
do te na beje te arrijme
lumturine me te madhe.
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