Regjistruar: 28/10/2010
Vendbanimi: Dans tes rêves..
Mesazhe: 8269

Citim:

---

Po citoj ato që tha lorie

---

Ke diçka aty,, lexoje



Naten... ora per nani ketu

__________________
"Tmerrohem kur e mendoj boten pa mua!!"--Jean-Paul Sartre

Denonco këtë mesazh tek moderatorët | IP: e regjistruar

Regjistruar: 03/01/2003
Vendbanimi: Today
Mesazhe: 1498

Love to me is like a partnership. Where each person meets half way. I broke up with my girl. And so far, I think It has been a blessing in disguise. I'm one of those people which I don't mind being alone.
I have no time to waste with demanding spoiled brats. Who think I should provide them with happiness.

A word of advice for men. Before you go into the love adventure. Make sure you protect yourself. Better safe than sorry. And remember sometimes it's not always worth it. There are alternatives.

Denonco këtë mesazh tek moderatorët | IP: e regjistruar

Regjistruar: 24/07/2003
Vendbanimi: in you
Mesazhe: 3137

Citim:

---

Po citoj ato që tha Endri
Love to me is like a partnership. Where each person meets half way. I broke up with my girl. And so far, I think It has been a blessing in disguise. I'm one of those people which I don't mind being alone.
I have no time to waste with demanding spoiled brats. Who think I should provide them with happiness.

A word of advice for men. Before you go into the love adventure. Make sure you protect yourself. Better safe than sorry. And remember sometimes it's not always worth it. There are alternatives.

---

I absolutely agree with you man( it's a partnership) you should have said this one first before you mentioned all the degrading words you said about women in general.( but maybe your hurt feelings were speaking)
And yes, almost always break ups are blessings in disguise ( are you using Christian terms here? )
And I am also one of those people I don't mind at all being alone. And trust me when I say that relying on a man to bring a woman happiness will eventually be a dissapointment and vice versa. It is indeed too much pressure to put on a man or woman.

A word of advice for women: ( and this does not come from a place of bitterness but of truth) Happiness does not rely on men. Dating is not all there is in life. Life has great things to live for and great causes to stand for and if there is a man who wants to join and ' slay the dragons' with you by your side that becomes more exciting. If not, life still goes on and all is well

__________________
Philippians 4:8-Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.

Denonco këtë mesazh tek moderatorët | IP: e regjistruar

Regjistruar: 03/01/2003
Vendbanimi: Today
Mesazhe: 1498

I really liked the quote "dating is not all there is out there". But just like marriage is not all there is out there. There is common law. There is cohabitation. There is being single. Lot's of other options. I'm not bitter. I'm just fed up of social expectation to which christianity is responsible to some of it.

Now don't get me wrong. If you believe in a religion. I think believing is good for your soul. But some of this stuff is nonsense. Men are taught at young age that without woman they will have unfulfilling life. They will be "less of a man". So many men try hard to compensate for women's actions. Pure Nonsense.

It goes for both sides.

Modifikuar nga Endri datë 23/05/2011 ora 08:55

Denonco këtë mesazh tek moderatorët | IP: e regjistruar

Regjistruar: 24/07/2003
Vendbanimi: in you
Mesazhe: 3137

Men or women should not be taught at a young age that w/o a man or woman, you have no worth as if your own worth depended exclusively on the other person. Does it enrich your life? Yes, but it's not the end all & be all. And Christianity does not teach that having a life partner will bring you fulfillment either.

As far as cohabitation or not, I have friends who have done that but they are not Christians so they don't have such a conviction I do because they frankly don't believe in that sort of things.

However, it's funny you mention the cohabitation aspect. We had a similar discussion with my friends at grad school a few weeks ago and I learned something I never knew before :that people who cohabitate and later get married have higher divorce rates than people who have not cohabitated but marry right away. And the reason they mentioned was a switch or change of roles from 'roommates' to sharing things together such as finances and so forth and so the adjustment gets too hard for them.

__________________
Philippians 4:8-Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.

Denonco këtë mesazh tek moderatorët | IP: e regjistruar

Regjistruar: 03/01/2003
Vendbanimi: Today
Mesazhe: 1498

It's not like the marriage institution is working great either. In certain countries more than half of people get divorced.

Denonco këtë mesazh tek moderatorët | IP: e regjistruar

Regjistruar: 18/05/2009
Vendbanimi: vlore
Mesazhe: 5487

what is love
hyr nigjoje ket keng po pergjigje smerr

Denonco këtë mesazh tek moderatorët | IP: e regjistruar

Regjistruar: 24/07/2003
Vendbanimi: in you
Mesazhe: 3137

Citim:

---

Po citoj ato që tha Endri
It's not like the marriage institution is working great either. In certain countries more than half of people get divorced.

---

yeah,it's sad It shouldn't be like that. Marriage is not to end up divorced.

__________________
Philippians 4:8-Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.

Denonco këtë mesazh tek moderatorët | IP: e regjistruar

Regjistruar: 27/06/2007
Vendbanimi: ...prapa diellit...
Mesazhe: 3492

Citim:

---

Po citoj ato që tha lorie


yeah,it's sad It shouldn't be like that. Marriage is not to end up divorced.

---

Don't worry o Lori -

__________________
Cdo gje shqiptare esht e dashur per mua

Denonco këtë mesazh tek moderatorët | IP: e regjistruar

Regjistruar: 28/10/2010
Vendbanimi: Dans tes rêves..
Mesazhe: 8269

Human beings are designed for many things.

loneliness isn't one of them...

__________________
"Tmerrohem kur e mendoj boten pa mua!!"--Jean-Paul Sartre

Denonco këtë mesazh tek moderatorët | IP: e regjistruar