Regjistruar: 11/04/2003
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At the moment u ask urself if u're better off on ur own,u've got already ur answer...

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Was this answer for me?

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Regjistruar: 11/04/2003
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One of the stadia of development of mind and conscience is the capability to pass from individual cases to abstract things/general rules!

No it wasn't for you,just abstraction Actually,I've read only the the titel of the topic,not what u wrote in it so obviuosly it wasn't for u.

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Even if the truth of the facts shines, people will always be beaten in the subtle trench of the interpretations.

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Chanel Coco said something quite scary one day when comeone expressed surpuise at seeing her, so famous, so rich, growing old without a man around; "An old man, how horrid that would be! And a young man what a shame!"

We all unique, with different views towards life, marriage, relationships and kids. Being independant its something that some of us can't live without. But being with someone doesen't mean that we totally loose that. And sure, is important that no one invade our own space, It is very importand that we set bounderis and that we respect them.

Yeah, in the short term being '50%' single is not a bad idea, but long term, having a partner, personally I think it is a much better idea. Besides shared joy is double joy.

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Cohabiting couple, married couple tend to live longer than unmarried people. They are happier, healthier and have lower rates of various mental disorders than the single, widowed or divorced people. Unmarried relative to the married has generally been increasing over the years and therefore this leads to higher risk.

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Are we better off on our own??? An interesting question but I feel the answers and opinions that have been given are slighlty over the top. It is not a question of science, statistics pschological or psyiological!!! Yes there are points which are valid to the question. Basically to answer honestly it is different for different people.

Your answers when we are all honest about it can change. Sometimes it is yes sometimes it is no. There is no need to delve deep in the reasons or quote things from books or famous philosophers it's about how you feel and what your life means to you and where it will take you.

If you are happy to be single i.e meaning to remain alone and without a partner this is fine. If like me you have never been as happy by being with one special person then this is fine also.

When people start talking about being totally alone than this is something entirely different and something you will never agree on.

So if your single or with someone and you are happy then good luck and best wishes for the rest of your life and enjoy it.

With respect Myzeqari

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In your life is better to risk than to die without risking.

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“To be or not to be with someone???” that’s the question.

In my opinion it is better to be with someone than alone. The process of being with someone is enriching and has a built-in quality of affirmation of each person, that we are both human beings, equal ultimately yet giving to and receiving from each other in very different ways. You will be able to share every feeling with that “someone”, learn more about yourself and see the world from a different angle.


I think everyone has had an experience of being with someone where you think that it’s all dandy, and that you’re on the same page emotionally, but surprise! It’s over and that “someone” has managed to cause you grief, sadness and heartbreak. It is very important that every one of us understands that every relationship you’re in is a failure except one. Ideally you want to be married to one person for your entire life, but you have to go through the failures and learn from each one before you get to that 'someone'.

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You are 100% right.

Citim:

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“To be or not to be with someone???” that’s the question.

In my opinion it is better to be with someone than alone. The process of being with someone is enriching and has a built-in quality of affirmation of each person, that we are both human beings, equal ultimately yet giving to and receiving from each other in very different ways. You will be able to share every feeling with that “someone”, learn more about yourself and see the world from a different angle.


I think everyone has had an experience of being with someone where you think that it’s all dandy, and that you’re on the same page emotionally, but surprise! It’s over and that “someone” has managed to cause you grief, sadness and heartbreak. It is very important that every one of us understands that every relationship you’re in is a failure except one. Ideally you want to be married to one person for your entire life, but you have to go through the failures and learn from each one before you get to that 'someone'.

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